Is there still a chance she will get back with me?

[Horsefield1245]

So me and this girl have been dating for a year and a half now and it was great no problems. In December, she got into a car crash and she couldn't drive anymore and I couldn't drive because of insurance purposes. The two months she crashed she wasn't herself at all. She treated me like I wasn't important and she was never like that. She broke up with me a week ago and She says she still loves me. But this week has been absolutely hell for me because I didnt even see it coming. She is ignoring me now and acting like nothing is wrong. And I can barely even think straight anymore. She also said she doesn't know if she wants to be with me during college because I did get a little annoying by keep asking to see her. Was it because we couldn't see each other? Im just so broken because I loved this girl so much

[Andrina]

It's important to see how a partner will react in the bad times as well as the good. She's showing you how she behaves when the going gets rough, which it always does in life. Your self esteem is lacking since you still want a woman who made you feel unimportant and who would rather dump you than do everything in her power to ensure you two would always be together. Time to work on your self worth so that you won't accept anyone in your life who doesn't treat you like gold.

[Betterwithout]

Dating prior to college and during college can be challenging times. You are constantly playing chess with your life. (recently became a grown adult, possibly living away from home, stress of school, stress of future after school)...then throw on top of that a relationship. Eventually somethings got to give. I think Spring Break vacation have some great merit to them; it gives students a chance to let it all hang out and de-stress.

Then, she gets the stress of a car accident. That's a lot on your plates.

 

It's quite possible that she doesn't want to be tied down at this point. Many peoples in their 20's go through a phase and put "settling down" on the back burner until they are in there 30's.

 

Will she get back with you? Sounds like the ball is in her court. Keep the racket in your hand for now, and allow her the space she needs.

In the meantime, you have just freed up some time to enjoy yourself in the things you like to do.

[Wiseman2]

Sorry to hear this. However after major trauma you need to be patient and understanding as someone pulls themselves back together.

 

Never pressure someone to give you tons of attention when they are going through their own stuff. Man up. Learn to be supportive, not needy.

 

Work on yourself and being independent, building confidence through interests, school achievement, work, groups, clubs, sports, volunteering, etc. Don't be a clingy pest.

she got into a car crash and she couldn't drive anymore. She treated me like I wasn't important.She broke up with me a week ago. She also said she doesn't know if she wants to be with me during college because I did get a little annoying by keep asking to see her.