i dunno what to do

[Knight2001]

hi,

i recently posted "is it time to say goodbye" on here.

my g/f has been in touch over the weekend telling me how i've ruined her life and how much of a state i have got her into. she says i was just playing games all along. i wasnt i've never felt like anyone like i do about her.

now i dont know what to do for the best - do i contact her but risk getting her into a state or leave her alone, but then i get accused of not caring about her.

i just dont seem to be able to do the right thing.

we had a plan where we were both going to sell our houses and buy one together - she says i dont want this as i am just playing games. to be able to do this however, she has to be divorced, which is nowhere near completion.

im just a bit confused to be honest.

i think the catylist to this is i checked her phone and found she'd been calling me names to her sister. i asked her about this and she says i've destroed all the trust she had for me by looking on her phone (and finding out she had lied to me)

sorry to moan on, i just want some answers from somewhere.

[Wiseman2]

She is pure poison. You need to end this, sorry.

my g/f has been in touch over the weekend telling me how i've ruined her life and how much of a state i have got her into. she says i was just playing games all along.

we had a plan where we were both going to sell our houses and buy one together to be able to do this however, she has to be divorced, which is nowhere near completion.