tonypr24 Posted February 24, 2017 Share Posted February 24, 2017 Hi As the title says, i cheated on my wife and now the girl is pregnant. Ive been with my wife for 22 years since i was 18 and she was 16. We have been married for 11 years now and we have 2 girls, 10 years and 9 years old. Ever since we have been together i have tried to give my everything. I mean everything, even if i couldn't afford it i would find the way to do it. She wanted to own a place, i went out and bought a condo. She wanted a house i went and bought her a house, she wanted kids we had 2 beautiful girls, she wanted animals i went out and got her 2 fogs even tho i didn't want them. Whatever i did for her was never enough. She always wanted more and always comparing us with what her friends had. She was always criticizing what we had compared to what others had. I remember laying in bed and fantasizing about making her happy and picturing myself surprising her with stuff. Years before we had a house when she was sgoing thru college i was working all day, and i used to run home after work and cook dinner and try to time it so when she walked thru the door the fiod was ready, but she would be late or tell me she had to stay late in school. I found out she had a male friend she was always hanging around with in college. They would go out drinking and go out with other people and they would bring their girlfriends and boyfriends but i was never invited. I started to think she was cheating on me and because i couldn't prove it i just stayed with her. So years later here i am trying to make her happy with everything that i could knowing in the back of my head that she probably cheated on me while she was going thru college and i was supporting her and paying for everything while she was out partying. I finally snapped and started to think for myself, no more trying to make her happy, no more anything. I started to see someone at work and i got her pregnant. I was so scared when i found out, i was looking for advice and most people told me not to tell her yet..to wait 3 months to see if the girl would keep the baby. 3 months came and went i was so afraid to tell he. Now she is 8months pregnant and i haven't had the courage to tell her. I love my wife and kids i don't know what to do. I promised myself i would tell her next Wednesday and im scared. I am not looking for sympathy here since i know what i did. I guess im looking for any advice or anyone who has had a similar story. Anything will help Thank u Link to comment
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