Midgar Posted February 23, 2017 Share Posted February 23, 2017 Hi, thanks for taking the time to read this. Um, so. My girlfriend of 5 years (i'm 25) split with me. And i'm torturing myself over not understanding why. Simple solution being to talk to her, she ignores me. Last time i text her was about getting my stuff back from her, to which she ignored everytime i did. (wasn't pestering her, sent 3 texts spread across a week.) After the 3rd time though i got really angry and drove over to her/our flat. She wasn't there so i let myself in through methods i know how. Genuinly just took my things and left, didn't take anything that wasn't mine or do anything stupid. I sent her a text after, just telling her that i'd let myself in to get my things. Wasn't really a nasty text. Just saying that if she hadn't ignored me we could have dealt with it like adults, and that she's the one who pushed me away so i don't see what's difficult for her about it. After that the text included other things.. "i miss you, i just wanted to make you happy" that sorta thing. She replied with a picture of someone giving the finger.. It hurt more then it should have. It hurt as much as it did because i haven't done anything to deserve any of this. Before i forget, she took me for almost everything, including my insanly well priced flat, now i'm actually homeless and just staying at different places. But again, i didn't do anything. I didn't cheat, treat her bad, beat her up etc etc. Anyway, the closest to a reason i have is what she said. She wants space, to make her life better. Is it just me or does that sound like a lie? To summerise 5 years of our lives together.. Really? It falls down to something so.. i dunno, bland. It doesn't seem like shes told me the whole reason. Would you say that sounds right? I'm able to see her on Xbox.. and this has to be the strangest source for evidence. But she's been playing some odd things, things she would never play. Halo Wars 2, Carmigeddon (never heard of it? Because it's generic and underground as it gets).. So now i'm asking myself, who the hell is playing these on her account? Staright up question, based on your own experiences also. What is the likelyhood she's met/seeing someone else? We broke up only a month ago. She was so upset by the break up to, which makes no sense.. why is she dumping me then? I could try and text her, but to be honest i don't want to. If she ignores it, i feel 20x worse then before sending it. As much i wish we could get back togther, what i want from her isn't that. I just want a convincing reason for why she ending 5 years together for nothing. Because i don't feel like i can move on without the reason. I wish people would stop assuming they are protecting people by not telling them things. All that does is spread the pain out for later, rather then getting over with at once. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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