sallymae19 Posted February 23, 2017 Share Posted February 23, 2017 Just over 2 months ago I started dating a guy, he initiated it and in the first two weeks we went on several dates. He was super interested, messaged me in the morning and all throughout the day and at night. When we'd see eachother we always arranged the next time we'd see eachother. Now he doesn't text as much, the last week hardly at all. I don't expect 24/7 contact I know it's not healthy but he's making no effort and I can't remember the last time he messaged me first. I spent the night with him and he reassured me he cares about me and I've got nothing to worry about and that he could fall in love with me one day, yet when he dropped me off at home the next day he didn't made plans to see me again. He's had a stressful event happen this week, and he didn't message me for over a day, I could see he was online on and off the whole time yet completely ignored me making me think it was over. I've had bad relationships in the past where men have just vanished on me, and I have massive abandonment issues, but am I overreacting or is he losing interest? He doesn't seem the same as he did in the beginning yet reassures me I have nothing to worry about. He met my parents, but hasn't said anything about me meeting his. Is he too scared to bring it up to my face so says what I want to hear but is slowly phasing me out?! He struggles to open up in general and I don't want to keep pushing him because I don't want to scare him off. Please help I feel like I'm going crazy. Link to comment
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