aleigh Posted February 21, 2017 Share Posted February 21, 2017 Okay so basically I work with this guy and he talked to me a lot at work (he likes to talk in general) and I would always find myself trying to run past him because it's exhausting sometimes as nice as he is. Anyways eventually the more he talked to me then added me on fbook I realized he like probably me. One day after work he flat out confessed this to me it was very intense but kind of sweet. I was unsure if I liked him or not because he's not my usual type at all but something about him did attract me and he's pretty funny. So then we end up talking quite a bit I start to realize that he's falling very fast and becoming a little too much. Example: always asking me to take breaks with him, telling me how good I look all the time, staring at me, constantly coming over to talk to me saying he missed me, and so much more. One day while taking break sitting soo uncomfortably close to me and then gave me an awkward long hug after. We ended up going on a date and honestly I like talking to him and all but worst date of my life. He kept telling me how perfect and beautiful the date was and had a heart to heart with me in the car saying how sorry if he's being too much but he's being honest I'm the only girl in his heart and all this crazy stuff and made a joke even saying imagine if you went home and said I think we should just be friends. In my head I'm like oh my god. He also says how alike we are all the time but we're nothing alike really. This guy forsure has issues and he's a really good guy but just way too clingy. So I told him I wanted to be just friends he freaked out a bit at first then took it fairly well. Saying oh ya I'm excited to just be friends but we still have to hangout and actually be friends then... yep I knew at that point he didn't get it. He asked me to hangout valentines, go for lunch all these things. So from then he fell back into flirting with me and I ended up here in this awkward situation of having to tell him again I'm not interested and I just want to be friends. He was so taken aback. He also always wants to talk in the phone and kept asking saying this is no conversation for text and I said no. I just snapped and couldn't do it anymore. He started playing the pity party saying oh well then if you don't care and don't want me in your life I'll vanish hopefully I'll find a new job soon bla bla. Then he said sorry I do still want to be friends I don't want you out of my life. The next day just to be nice I said I hope you have a good day off if we don't talk much just trying to make things normal. He hasn't replied which I'm fine with friends is not going to work with this guy so makes my life easier. Work tho is going to be so awkward I feel like. What do I do? Say hi or ignore him? I also have to walk by him a lot Link to comment
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