butterfly45 Posted February 21, 2017 Share Posted February 21, 2017 I have (or had) a really close friend at uni and we would have great get togethers every now and then. Only she has cancelled the last three. And this has been after me asking if we are still on rather than her getting in touch to let me know. The thing is she is always the first one to initiate contact and arrange the date in the first place, and she keeps saying 'I miss you, I need [name] time!', with all the sad smileys, including whenever she cancels which is so annoying. If you miss me that much how hard is it to keep one date free a month? I've no idea what is going on...before we arranged the last get together she said she didn't want to 'ask in too much detail when I am free if it is a difficult subject'...I think she is referring to me finishing my PhD. But I reassured her that I am still at uni regularly and would really like to meet up. She can also get a bit moody if my boyfriend is around, if we have a group get together he will come to those but she will ask if we can have drinks on our own without him afterwards. Any ideas or what to do next? I haven't replied to her last message cancelling. Link to comment
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