Shokes97 Posted February 20, 2017 Posted February 20, 2017 I know alot of people are going to say this is a generic way someone saying I'm no longer interested in you but I wanted some advice and perhaps from a girl also.. I've been with her for 2 years and we did love eachother ALOT. Then arguments started to appear out of nowhere and it ended a disaster where she said she wanted space. I begged pleaded etc. She said if you just leave me be I would so give you another chance if you give me the space I'm asking for. She said if I give her what she wants now being space she will give me a chance. I'm going to go no contact and wait for her to reach out. What do you think? Don't look into it and just give her what she needs?
rosephase Posted February 20, 2017 Posted February 20, 2017 When someone tells you to leave them alone, you do. You don't do it because you hope to get something out of them later. You do it because that is the decent thing to do. What does "looking into it" mean to you?
Shokes97 Posted February 20, 2017 Author Posted February 20, 2017 When someone tells you to leave them alone, you do. You don't do it because you hope to get something out of them later. You do it because that is the decent thing to do. What does "looking into it" mean to you? I mean like reading between the lines. And I know that I just mean does it sound like good news? Shall I just leave it be and let her reach out when she wants
rosephase Posted February 20, 2017 Posted February 20, 2017 I mean like reading between the lines. And I know that I just mean does it sound like good news? Shall I just leave it be and let her reach out when she wants Someone breaking up with you in rarely good news. I wouldn't hold my breath. And would you want to be with someone who dumped you out of the blue for something as ambiguous as "I need space"? Personally? I would move on and not expect to hear from her again. If she does reach out you can figure out if you are interested then.
Dahl Posted February 20, 2017 Posted February 20, 2017 I mean like reading between the lines. And I know that I just mean does it sound like good news? Shall I just leave it be and let her reach out when she wants Hello and welcome to the forum. Aye, leave it be and wait to see if - hopefully when - she reaches out to you. If she doesn't, accept it, of course, but in the meantime, I think I understand what you are asking, she may mean precisely what she said, that she needs space, and not be using it solely as a whitewashed farewell. I wish you luck.
Shokes97 Posted February 20, 2017 Author Posted February 20, 2017 Someone breaking up with you in rarely good news. I wouldn't hold my breath. And would you want to be with someone who dumped you out of the blue for something as ambiguous as "I need space"? Personally? I would move on and not expect to hear from her again. If she does reach out you can figure out if you are interested then. Yeah I agree feelings come and go and I might not be interested come that point. I know it's not as generic as some people make out however as she does have alot going on in terms of home life with parents divorcing
Shokes97 Posted February 20, 2017 Author Posted February 20, 2017 Yeah fingers crossed. Thanks in the meantime I guess I should focus in becoming the best possible version of myself
Shokes97 Posted February 20, 2017 Author Posted February 20, 2017 Hello and welcome to the forum. Aye, leave it be and wait to see if - hopefully when - she reaches out to you. If she doesn't, accept it, of course, but in the meantime, I think I understand what you are asking, she may mean precisely what she said, that she needs space, and not be using it solely as a whitewashed farewell. I wish you luck. Yeah fingers crossed. Thanks in the meantime I guess I should focus in becoming the best possible version of myself
Dahl Posted February 20, 2017 Posted February 20, 2017 Yeah fingers crossed. Thanks in the meantime I guess I should focus in becoming the best possible version of myself Can't go wrong, right? I wish you luck! , X,, Fingers crossed!
ChellyV Posted February 20, 2017 Posted February 20, 2017 Sometimes space is what is needed to move to a healthier phase.
Dahl Posted February 20, 2017 Posted February 20, 2017 Sometimes space is what is needed to move to a healthier phase. This is spot on. Well said.
Shokes97 Posted February 20, 2017 Author Posted February 20, 2017 So much positivity on here as opposed to other forums. Anyone hve suggestions on how to do nc successfully? I always get as far as a week and cave in. Any tips?
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