As23 Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 hey guys I want some counseling .. I met a girl online .. At first she said that she doesn't wanna fall for me and we will be just friends .. I said ok it's our first chat anyways who knows where this will go .. then we started chatting on daily basis for an average of 4-5 hours a day .. and she always was the one who started talking .. I thought she might be liking me more than a friend so i started to flirt from time to time and then I made a small test if she is into somethings I like and she didn't show any interest .. so I started to talk crudely and kinda changed the way i used to talk to her .. But she kept on talking normally later on and knocking on my doors like she do everyday .. And currently im still talking in the same way .. I don't understand how she can talk all this time and share many personal things to somebody while you are just being a friend .. And I don't wanna spend my time everyday with someone who I really can't tell what I am to her .. I wanna know if we are just friends ? Then fine but we can't talk all this time every day on nearly anything she or I encounter in my life .. If we are gonna continue talking this way then I don't see myself doing this to a friend .. I won't ask her directly as I don't wanna embarrass or hurt her or myself to be honest .. I just want clues or other things from you to help me out dealing with this situation .. Thanks in advance ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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