Is he interested?

[beccam]

So Im a 19 y/o girl and I've never been in a relationship before and I don't really speak to many guys. Theres is a guy who is a few years older than me, that I am interested in getting to know but I am not sure if the feelings are mutual. He has spoken to me about 5-6 times through social media about 1 thing we have in common and the conversation usually lasts about 3 minutes long, then it dies down, unless we are speaking about him (he is a lawyer and is a bit up himself)

 

He hasn't made the effort to get to know me other than ask what my age is, yet he always sends me direct pictures on Snapchat of himself or only ever talks to me when its about this 1 thing we have in common. Im getting tired of speaking of the same damn thing! When I give him a chance to start up a conversation he usually opens up the message/picture and doesn't reply to it?!?! He also likes every picture I upload on social media, I just want to know if he is interested or not, I feel like I'm getting mixed signals? I don't want to sit around getting my hopes up and wasting time. I don't have many guy friends so I would like to know from a males perspective if he seems interested or not? PLEASE help! x

 

(PS: We've never met in real life and his ex girlfriend of almost 3 years was in the year above me in school, ALSO he still has many pictures of his ex gf on social media and they both still follow each other on social media)

[Andrina]

If he's only a few years older, 21, it's probably a lie that he's a lawyer already. Why people accept friends on social media who they don't even know is strange to me, and dangerous. You are not getting anything positive from this interaction. You don't even know him. Delete him as a friend. A safer bet to meeting men is through things like meetups.com or other social activity groups like co-ed sports teams or through volunteering activities. Good luck.

[trojan]

no hes not interested in you. He is just mildly interested in your mutual interest, whatever that is, music or whatever. Hes older than you, and has an ex, and was with her for three years. Hes a more mature and older person than you are, and is at a different phase of relationships, no offense intended toward you at all.

Unless hes a little weird, you are just too young for him.

What 'mixed signals' are you receiving? He talked to you a few times about a mutual interest subject? I wouldnt base much on that. I talk on social media to people all the time about mutual interest subjects, but that doesnt mean I have the hots for them.

Hes just clicking 'like' on your pictures, and he vaguely knows you exist, and if I were you I wouldnt "sit around getting my hopes up and wasting time"

[Wiseman2]

It sounds like he's not interested in anything but promoting himself. Dating apps are better for dating than random meaningless social media interactions.

 

Get a nice profile and pics on some dating apps and start messaging and meeting guys...in person asap...for coffee.

We've never met in real life.