Truebleu27 Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 And here I return, with more confusion as to weather or not a guy likes me. OK so the good, the bad, and the ugly. The good: I have known this guy for a while, this year we became friends and he's awesome. He's talented (were both in theater), cool, funny as all hell, and hot as . I know he is attracted to me, he has said it to me a few times (tho both times we were around his best friend, and the second a group of his close friends, tho he has also said so over private messages). So we went to a theater como together and it was fun and I got to know him better, we hung out joked around laughed etc. It was an early morning to late night thing and on the way home I fell asleep on him, and during the ride he was checking me out... A lot, like to the point other people were noticing. And I know his best friend seemed like he was trying to play match maker between us (plus the friend walked me home and was asking what I thought about the guy) And afterwards we messaged a lot and talked a lot and he hugged me Everytime he saw me. We still talk a lot and hang out in the classes we have together and we have both been in all the plays done this year. He laughs at literally everything I say and is always trying to make me laugh, and he playfully teases me a lot, and I catch him staring at me and smiling a lot lately. The bad: soon after the comp I was talking about above he asked out another girl (also in theater) but she said no. And during the last play I pressed him untill he told me who he liked (2 other theater girls) but both have flat out said they would never date him and see him as family. Plus he dosent hug me anymore, like he goes in to hug me initially but stops and gets awkward. Plus he gets awkward whenever we talk in person (though we still do a lot) and we don't message much anymore. I think he at least liked me before but I'm not sure if he does now. The Ugly: I don't really know, I just wanted to make a movie reference. So in conclusion I don't really know what to do, I don't know is if he likes me or not. If he is trying to make me jealous or friendzoned. I know he has never had a girlfriend so he could just be really awkward. Any opinions would be amazing, please be completely honest as to what you think.
Wiseman2 Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 Sorry to hear this but if he's asking out other girls he's not "really awkward". It seems you pushed him away a lot, only enjoying his attention, so he got fed up and moved on. You are friendzoning him, why? Why didn't you make it clear you were interested rather than worrying about "checking you out and staring" etc. It's odd you never suggested going for a drink or acted interested in anything except being friends. he asked out another girl. I pressed him untill he told me who he liked 2 other theater girls. Plus he gets awkward whenever we talk in person and we don't message much anymore.
Scoe141 Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 I'd go for him. You have nothing to lose. What's the worst thing that happens? He rejects you? Sure it may hurt now, but it'll sure trump the wonder you might have for a long time. Ask him on a legitimate date. But if you feel he's not giving you his all, or is torn between several girls then move on. I wish I had this site when I was younger. I'm sure I would have made several different choices in my dating life. Good luck.
JaggerJim Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 If he hasn't asked you out, I don't think he's interested. Your in the friendzone.
Truebleu27 Posted February 16, 2017 Author Posted February 16, 2017 Both of us are under 21 so I can't really ask him out for a drink. On the trip it was fun and we were flirting and I fell asleep against him and when I woke up his arm was around me. I didn't realize I was friendzoned him, I thought he was doing that to me. Any suggestions on what to do as of now?
Truebleu27 Posted February 16, 2017 Author Posted February 16, 2017 Sorry to hear this but if he's asking out other girls he's not "really awkward". It seems you pushed him away a lot, only enjoying his attention, so he got fed up and moved on. You are friendzoning him, why? Why didn't you make it clear you were interested rather than worrying about "checking you out and staring" etc. It's odd you never suggested going for a drink or acted interested in anything except being friends.
James516 Posted February 20, 2017 Posted February 20, 2017 Nice movie reference for your post. To keep it going, he is probably gun shy. You mentioned that he was rejected twice because he was "like family" to them. Familyzoned is even worse that being friendzoned. So he must be realizing that his approach is a complete failure and probably is expecting the same type of rejection from you. Thus he pulled back before you became a sister, too. For your part, it's never good to press someone for an answer, that can also create awkardness. Since you are interested and don't seem to mind that he chose two others already, Scoe's advice is good.
StrawberryCake Posted February 20, 2017 Posted February 20, 2017 If you have to wonder whether he is interested or not, he is not! If a guy is interested in you, he will make it clear. I'd say... don't waste time trying to figure out a guy who is not making his feelings clear... move on.
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