She told me she dreamed of me.what does it mean?

[Derek 15]

I'm 24, she is 21.

She just told me this morning she dreamed of me that I was hugging another girl, and lastly said "so you should know it means something to me" in a flirtatious way.

Is she telling me that I have to make a move or just playing with me?

Ps

She just broke up with his ex these days.

Thanks guys,

[Wiseman2]

Do you work or go to uni together? This is a red flag: "She just broke up with his ex these days". But if you're into her ask to go for coffee/lunch and see what she says.

She just told me this morning she dreamed of me that I was hugging another girl, and lastly said "so you should know it means something to me" in a flirtatious way.

[Dahl]

Hello, Derek, and welcome to the forum.

 

First blush impression: she invented a framing device to speak with you about her interest in you. There's little to no chance there was actually a dream in play.

 

More importantly, I would strongly recommend that you do not get romantically involved with this woman or anyone who has just come out of another romantic relationship.

 

Best of luck to you.

[Derek 15]

Hi, thanks for the reply.

We work together.

But why is it red flag?

[Derek 15]

Thanks for the answer.

Why should I not get involved with girls who's after breakup?..

[Wiseman2]

Recent ex + work together = red flags.

We work together.But why is it red flag?

[mbee]

I'm 24, she is 21.

She just told me this morning she dreamed of me that I was hugging another girl, and lastly said "so you should know it means something to me" in a flirtatious way.

Is she telling me that I have to make a move or just playing with me?

Ps

She just broke up with his ex these days.

Thanks guys,

 

Ask yourself, is this worth the drama?

 

Recent breakup means she's most likely not over her ex and rebounding big time. Which means you will be the rebound and risk getting hurt.

 

secondly you guys work together. Sometimes working relationships can work, but it's only rarely.

 

I'd advise against this.

[J Miracle]

I mean I wouldn't worry about the ex. Every person is different in terms of how quickly they move on, also considering how long/serious that relationship was and how recently that ended.

 

She's obviously telling you she literally finds you dreamy. Better make that move.

[Derek 15]

Thanks a lot for the reply.

Yeah actually I like her more than just a friend and I think we both know that.

And she also told me that many of her friends thought that we actually are together. And my colleagues aslo said that to me once. They say we seem a good match.. but I don't know her intention to tell me that. I'm kind of confused and bothered by this. I don't know what to do...

[Derek 15]

Thank you for the reply.

Probably, but i cannot risk losing our partnership at work in return of relationship, so I'm super careful. Anyway I don't think I need to rush this so I'll just try not to be bothered by this.