deoxyriboss Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 I've been dating this guy for about a year and a half now. This is my first serious relationship. We've had our fair share of problems, but overall I felt as though we have a good, supportive relationship. The problem is, most of the time we have problems, I'm usually the one who brings it up. He never talks about his feelings unless I prompt him to, and this is something I've tried to address and talk about, but nothing seems to change. He's not a very emotional or affectionate person, and I've gotten used to that. Recently though, I've felt exceedingly unimportant to him. It's not like he is mean or anything to me, but i just feel like he has our relationship on the backburner. Yesterday was Valentine's day, and he didn't get me anything. I didn't want to be upset about it, but watching all of my friends and their SOs doing nice things killed me. No nice text, no piece of candy, not even something tiny. I said something about it that night and he absolutely lost it. He went on and on about how i should break up with him because he sucked, he was a bad boyfriend, he was tired of never doing anything right for me. He said that he had no time to get anything because both of us are so busy. This reaction completely threw me off, and I tried really hard to assure him that it wasn't a big deal, and that he could do sweet things for me any time. I felt guilty for making him feel guilty? Today, I guess I was hoping that he would try to make it up to me, but nothing again, he seems back to the way it was before. I'm at such a loss. I love him, I don't want to be without him, but I'm not being satisfied, and I hate constantly asking him to pay attention to me. Am I in the wrong, or is he? I Link to comment
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