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kz91

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Long story short, I broke up with her because I couldn't do the distance anymore. I promised to never break her heart I have and I can't deal with it, I hate myself so much for hurting and I feel exhausted, emotionally. It's like I have no energy.

 

I feel no different about her, I still love her more than I've ever loved anyone but the relationship is something I couldn't do anymore. She said if I really wanted us then I would fight.

 

I just need someone to talk to.

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Hello, kz. I'm sorry that you're suffering. How can we help? Would you like to provide more information on the reasons the long distance aspect of your relationship has become overwhelming? A/o can you please explain what it is she suggested you fight for, specifically?

 

Either way, I wish you brighter days, soon.

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Hello, kz. I'm sorry that you're suffering. How can we help? Would you like to provide more information on the reasons the long distance aspect of your relationship has become overwhelming? A/o can you please explain what it is she suggested you fight for, specifically?

 

Either way, I wish you brighter days, soon.

 

I just need someone to tell me it's gonna be okay and she will be okay too. We met and I have never fell so in love before and so quickly, being with her was the only thing that felt right. I love her so much, she's my favourite person. She still is. It was the seeing each other, I know we can't see each other all the time, that's a given in LDR. But I wanted forever with her and I can't do that because of the distance, I just wanted to be closer.

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You really are going to be alright, Jaz, and so is she. You've thought this through and you've chosen to do the right thing - not simply the easy, default one, and good on you for that - for the both of you.

 

Perhaps not just this moment, but given the degree of respect and tenderness you feel for her, and I imagine this is reciprocal, is there any reason to think you wouldn't be able to revive a solid friendship down the road?

 

I think Wiseman said it brilliantly - sometimes things just don't work out in LDRs - but this does not necessarily mean that you will never be a lovely part of each other's lives, again.

 

Hang in, Jaz. It's dark days just now, but you strike me as a strong soul.

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