2600degrees Posted February 15, 2017 Author Share Posted February 15, 2017 If you feel that she is always attacking you and throwing you under the bus for no good reason, then it sounds like you two are incompatible. No. I'm not compatible with that behavior, and we need to fix it together. If we can't fix this, it's a bad thing for our marriage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tattoobunnie Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 No. I'm not compatible with that behavior, and we need to fix it together. If we can't fix this, it's a bad thing for our marriage. In order to fix it together, you have to think about what you are responsible for. What are you accountable for? I mean, the way you write you post, it's like you're the good one, and she's the one who's ungrateful. I mean, has she always gotten on your case about cleaning? Or have things been bad lately? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2600degrees Posted February 15, 2017 Author Share Posted February 15, 2017 I clean, I do the laundry, I make dinner, and share all the responsibilities for the house. I come home most nights, spend time with together. I make a decent living. I support her, listen to her. Not sure why you jumped to a conclusion about cleaning. If you want to lump with in with some kind of stereotypical "man", good luck with that. I am who I am. This is about a specific behavior of hers, and my negative reaction. Its dysfunctional and I'm just struggling with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KantSleep Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 Sorry you are going through this. I don't know what is bothering her, but it sounds like something is. I hope it comes out in therapy, and it can be fixed. Everyone should be treated with love and respect. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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