slugger Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 I met this guy 2 weeks ago and we really hit it off and I like him. The thing is, he just got out of a relationship a month and a half ago. He broke up with her and said he wasn't feeling it for awhile and said she had forced him into an eight month relationship - I told him that makes no sense to me and he said, 'well, its true.' He still has tons of pictures of her on his facebook and instagram accounts. He told me he wasn't following her anymore but I looked through his following list and he is following her modeling instagram and she follows him back (shes a model). I know he wants to hook up with me but I can't tell if he's rebounding. Is he really rebounding if he's the one who broke up with her? The little voice in the back of my mind is saying I'm going to end up being a rebound. Just want some more opinions here Link to comment
Scoe141 Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 The little voice in the back of my mind is saying I'm going to end up being a rebound. Just want some more opinions here Listen to your voice. Personally I've never had any luck with someone who just came out of a relationship. If she supposedly "forced" him into a relationship, do you really think he's going to want to get back into one? I highly doubt it. I'd tread carefully, but if it were up to me I'd move on. Good luck. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 Your instincts are spot on. He's not over her so tread very carefully. He'll convince himself he's 'over her' by dating again, etc. Yeah, he's just using you to lick his wounds.he just got out of a relationship a month and a half ago. He still has tons of pictures of her on his facebook and instagram accounts. He told me he wasn't following her anymore but I looked through his following list and he is following her modeling instagram and she follows him back Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 Listen to that little voice. Especially in light of the fact that you can state the words " I know he wants to hook up with me " Hold out for a guy who will take his time to get to know you, preferably one that's been out of a relationship for a while. The fact that he says `she forced him into a relationship' is pretty suspect. There is either more to the story or he isn't looking for one. Either way. . stall this one and see if he runs off. If he's legit, he'll stick around and wait until you have more information and feel more secure about his intentions. Link to comment
slugger Posted February 14, 2017 Author Share Posted February 14, 2017 He kept reassuring me that he was over her and saying that he wasn't that into her, but judging from social media and how he talks about her, I think he's lying. Thanks everyone. Link to comment
j.man Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 Would a cat smell like **** if they'd just gotten out of the litter box? Well, it depends on how stinky their poops are and what kind of litter you got in there, but more often than not, yes. Similar concept with someone who just got out of a relationship. It depends, but why play the odds? Link to comment
Betterwithout Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 Rebounding like a rubber ball Link to comment
Matt3939 Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 Why don't u force him to be in a relationship with you? Link to comment
slugger Posted February 14, 2017 Author Share Posted February 14, 2017 Why don't u force him to be in a relationship with you? haha maybe i should Link to comment
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