Jusjess Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 So i just found out that my husband of2 years said somethings to my bestfriends boyfriend when they were hanging out. It was his first time meeting him so why he would tell him his life story pluse...he said that he was still using drugs that i just didnt know about it and that he owned guns but i was unaware.he showed hin pictures of theese so called guns lol just so happened we were at a friends house the day before and he had taken pictures of his guns. I laughed becauae why would someone lie about this stuff. He is young 21 and the guy he was telling was in his 30's. I had told him before that this guy had a drug problem and he was hiding it from my friend or at least ge thought he was. Not sure how to feel now as he made me look like i was in a dishonest marriage....i dont want to confront him because i dont want to cause problems and i dont want it to be akward when we hang out. He also told this guy about hiw he was in cps and grew up with his aunt so i know this is true so i belive he said all the other stuff. And i know if i confront him he will denie it. Im confused...does thus call for divorce for lack of trust????? Helpppp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 Does you husband do drugs, own guns,etc. or not? You need to ask not threaten divorce over gossip and hearsay..i dont want to confront him because i dont want to cause problems and i dont want it to be akward when we hang out. He also told this guy about hiw he was in cps and grew up with his aunt so i know this is true so i belive he said all the other stuff. And i know if i confront him he will denie it. Im confused...does thus call for divorce for lack of trust????? Helpppp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unreasonable Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 Huh? Can you clarify? Usually divorce isn't the number one stop when you find something questionable. That seems a bit kneejerk. I agree with Wiseman to talk about it. Is owning a gun a dealbreaker? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angrythoughts Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 This is too minor for a divorce. I agree with wiseman. Just ask... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trojan Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 Lots of people own guns and take drugs. Im one of them. If you didnt even know he takes drugs he must not be too into it. Think about that part: If his drug use is so insignifigent that you didnt even know he takes them it must not be much of a problem. Maybe he just tried a little here and there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unreasonable Posted February 14, 2017 Share Posted February 14, 2017 Lots of people own guns and take drugs. Im one of them. If you didnt even know he takes drugs he must not be too into it. Think about that part: If his drug use is so insignifigent that you didnt even know he takes them it must not be much of a problem. Maybe he just tried a little here and there. And maybe he's just trying to impress the guy. Certain people would respond favorably to those kinds of claims, I'm not one of them, although I have no issue with gun ownership. I mean, if he's shooting up heroin, yeah obviously I'd have a problem with that. But surely you'd be aware of that, right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jusjess Posted February 14, 2017 Author Share Posted February 14, 2017 Thanks for the replys. Owning a gun is not a deal breaker. It was just the ling. I dont want to jump to conclusion. Thank you for your input it means alot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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