Big Johnny Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 So been in no contact for about two weeks and messaged her just asking how her and son were doing and that I missed them and she replied doing good and that she missed me too! I is that a good sign or is she just telling me what I want to hear!
RainyCoast Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 so have you decided you are okay with her dating others while fooling around with you?
CSM101 Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 If she said it just like that, two words or so, she's just telling you what you want to hear. If more, it's a good sign.
Big Johnny Posted February 13, 2017 Author Posted February 13, 2017 Yea that is a good question ! Not really! I guess I'm just still in shock stage
RainyCoast Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 is it a good sign that she's not mentioning she'll stop screwing around? unless you are okay with an open non-relationship with your ex, you'd be smart to ignore the text. get over the shock without her. she'll just play you into being a sidekick if you're still vulnerable.
Fun Boater 1 Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 What are you "in shock" about? That she responded to your text? Or that she told you she misses you? You are asking if that's a "good sign", but you haven't provided much other information. I went back and read your other posts. What do you want from her ultimately? Do you wish to try the relationship again and have hopes that things might yet work out between you? If you do, then I would keep the dialogue going with her via text for now...but with the ultimate goal of getting her to meet up with you if you want to talk to her about things in person. If that is what you want. Obviously, it's a "good sign" when she responds and tells you that she misses you. Don't read so much into it and don't overthink it. Keep the dialogue open with her and get face to face with her next.
Wiseman2 Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 Unfortunately it sounds like that because you initiated this contact, she didn't Johnny;6750547]is she just telling me what I want to hear!
angrythoughts Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 I wouldn't say it's a good sign. Usually when someone tells you they "miss you" it'd be the polite thing to say it back. Did she break up with you?
mike7788 Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 I think saying I miss you puts yourself out there that you want the relationship, and if she doesn't reciprocate then it is clear that she does not want the relationship. She knows how you feel, if there was a chance she wanted to get back together, she would show you. There are no hidden meanings between the cracks, no silver lining. Break ups are break ups. If people want to get back together, they simply will.
DancingFool Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 Sounds like nothing more than a socially nice response. If she had said something like I miss you too, can we talk about getting back together..... then you have something going for you. Then again, given your history with her.....maybe you should give her a wide pass and lose her contact info. Break ups do suck, but everyone does get over them and invariably ends up meeting someone better and then they look back and wonder what all the agonizing was all about. The ex was never worth it, especially a cheating one.
SooSad33 Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 Means nothing.. sorry. I had an ex say same thing. Doesn't mean they want you back.... he was a cheater too. Tried to contact me again, within a year after I walked. never replied. I got my self respect back and healed.... then moved on.
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