pinklamb Posted February 13, 2017 Share Posted February 13, 2017 Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two and half years, but lately I feel like he's getting bored of me. We constantly tell each other I love you, always. But I feel like I can't trust him anymore. It breaks my heart to even say that, but he just lies to me all the time. Very recently, we were sitting together at the dinner table eating dinner and text from a phone number with not our area code popped up. He said it was a friend that he made at school. I asked if it was his male friend and he said yes. I later found out after prying some information and knowing his lying face, that it was a girl. She did not go to his school and they did not meet at school like he said. They met on the dating app Tinder; my boyfriend says he goes on there looking for friends (this is not the first time he's done this). I feel very uncomfortable with that and I told him. He obviously didn't seem to care and continues to talk to this girl. I said that multiple times and since then I feel like her presence and the fact that he lied to me about her is ruining our relationship. I have no idea what to do; I still love him and I don't at all want to leave him after everything we've been through. I also have depression and I had a panic attack when I found out all this information that he was lying to me about. He didn't do anything but stare at me. I know this is wrong, but I can understand his embarassment when I yelled in his house. He says hes just trying to make friends and I offered to help him find friends because Tinder is not the way to find them. He says he shouldn't have to stop being friends with this girl just because I say so. Am I wrong for telling him to get rid of his friend because of the way they started talking? (and let me be pretty clear by saying, he only started talking to this girl not so long ago.) Is he jeopardizing our relationship? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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