Rick1985 Posted February 12, 2017 Share Posted February 12, 2017 so those of you that responded to my post a few days ago will know that my ex reached out and accused me of being a liar and she's knows what I've been up to etc etc...which isn't a lot I feel like I cheated no contact. Anyway she took it as an opportunity to belittle our relationship which I didn't rise to. I've now found out she's seeing someone knee and had been for a couple of weeks...how people move on that fast just boggles my mind it really does. Anyway I know the person who she's seeing we all used to work together so makes it tough to take. I've deleted every trace of her photos phone numbers emails etc. I closed Instagram I'm not a big fan of it anyway and Ive closed my Facebook account aswell just to really come away from the negativity and start again from the ground up again and work on me. There's no doubting I haven't used no contact in the right way I now need to move forward and move away from negative influences so called friends sending me pics of them 2 together off Instagram which I had her blocked on. I'm now realising you really see someone's true self after a break up and I'm determined to bounce back from this Link to comment
angrythoughts Posted February 12, 2017 Share Posted February 12, 2017 She's rebounding that dude if that makes you feel any better. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted February 12, 2017 Share Posted February 12, 2017 Excellent. Yep, block anything and everything that lets any of this crap seep in. Do you think she 'overlapped' things with you and this guy? I've deleted every trace of her photos phone numbers emails etc. I closed Instagram I'm not a big fan of it anyway and Ive closed my Facebook account aswell just to really come away from the negativity and start again from the ground up again and work on me. There's no doubting I haven't used no contact in the right way I now need to move forward and move away from negative influences so called friends sending me pics of them 2 together off Instagram which I had her blocked on. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted February 12, 2017 Share Posted February 12, 2017 Don't cave, you're on the right track. All the best... Link to comment
Rick1985 Posted February 12, 2017 Author Share Posted February 12, 2017 This page keeps me sane thank you Link to comment
Rick1985 Posted February 12, 2017 Author Share Posted February 12, 2017 I think so little things about her saying she thought he was good looking but not her type etc. We all worked together I'm now thinking why didn't she come to my leaving drinks she said she wasn't in the mood but now I'm thinking did she just feel awkward?? Link to comment
Rick1985 Posted February 12, 2017 Author Share Posted February 12, 2017 Thank you heartgoeson Link to comment
Rick1985 Posted February 12, 2017 Author Share Posted February 12, 2017 I hope so are be long gone by the time that rebounds done. Link to comment
Rick1985 Posted February 12, 2017 Author Share Posted February 12, 2017 Excellent. Yep, block anything and everything that lets any of this crap seep in. Do you think she 'overlapped' things with you and this guy? Yes I think so just little things she used to say about him being good looking but not her type etc. He's 19 aswell she's 26 and I'm 31. She's got a 7 year old child I just realise now I never really knew her. But I think being off social media she's blocked on my phone all pics are now deleted everywhere so I can start to move forward now Link to comment
No1 Posted February 13, 2017 Share Posted February 13, 2017 So what, who cares, it doesnt matter. She could date an enitre football team and star in a porn video. She can move on in 5min and be engaged to a rich guy, she can talk about you and tell others how bad you were, it doesnt matter. You must settle things within yourself. We all make mistakes in relationships and what you must do is say that you did the best you could. And that you were a great partner. Other than that, you just have to wish her a happy life and not pay attention to what she does anymore. Its no longer your concern or business what she does anymore. You will be happy again. Link to comment
Rick1985 Posted February 13, 2017 Author Share Posted February 13, 2017 So what, who cares, it doesnt matter. She could date an enitre football team and star in a porn video. She can move on in 5min and be engaged to a rich guy, she can talk about you and tell others how bad you were, it doesnt matter. You must settle things within yourself. We all make mistakes in relationships and what you must do is say that you did the best you could. And that you were a great partner. Other than that, you just have to wish her a happy life and not pay attention to what she does anymore. Its no longer your concern or business what she does anymore. You will be happy again. Exactly what I said to her I wish you a lifetime of happiness Link to comment
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