Best first date Yesterday! Now onto second date with him!

[limichelle]

So I took your guys advice in my previous thread.

 

We moved up the date to Yesterday and had lunch at Johnny Rockets. He brought me a single red rose in the spirit of Valentine's Day coming up. We talked and connected and the chemistry was amazing!

 

We kissed I will say that but it felt right and it was very passionate.

 

Today we are seeing a movie and having lunch.

 

Lisa

[Matt3939]

Hope everything goes well. Don't see that new Vin diesel movie though it's unwatchable.

[milly007]

Awesome! Love positive dating stories. Have fun today!

[j.man]

Glad you had a good time. Not sure if you're looking for just fun or long-term, but if that latter, I'd be careful not to get caught up in the race to Valentine's Day. Thirst levels run high and can dry up just as quickly afterward. It could be that I'm in the Top 5 least romantic guys, but flower on the first date, movie on the second, and two dates in two days would have me a bit cautious unless I really was just making sure I had a lay lined up for the 14th. Which more power to you if that's the case!

 

Anyhow, wishing you the best and hope your second date is just as enjoyable as the first. Let us know how it goes.

[limichelle]

Thank you everyone!

 

I'm looking for long term and so is he.

 

I don't even know if I'll see him on the 14th to be honest. He works long hours during the weekdays.

 

I know Sex won't be happening anytime soon and he agrees.

 

I only sleep with someone once we are exclusive.

 

I will keep you posted.

 

Oh and don't worry we won't be seeing the diesel movie. 😂😂😂

 

Lisa

[Wiseman2]

Excellent! Sounds like a hit. Enjoy date two!

We moved up the date to Yesterday and had lunch at Johnny Rockets. He brought me a single red rose in the spirit of Valentine's Day coming up. We talked and connected and the chemistry was amazing! We kissed I will say that but it felt right and it was very passionate.Today we are seeing a movie and having lunch.

[Hollyj]

Enjoy!!!!!!!!

[mbee]

So happy to hear positive dating stories! Have fun

[limichelle]

Update:

 

We didn't go to the zoo since it was raining.

 

We went out to a show then out to eat. We saw The Space Between us, a cute movie by the way. Then we went out for a slice of Pizza.

 

We both don't have a lot of money so we decided on a system. That we would trade off treating each other each time we saw each other. Also we aren't going to go out all the time. We will do free things and hang out at my house or go to his apartment and watch movies and make dinner.

 

So I'm glad him and I agree about this early on how to manage our money. I'm on disability and he doesn't make a whole lot with his job.

 

Im not a woman that expects a guy to pay every time. I believe in treating a guy as much as he treats me. I see it only fair.

 

I was never looking for someone rich either. I want someone who has things that go way beyond materialistic value.

 

 

He has all those qualities. He can make me laugh, he is very polite and nice and him and I can talk about anything and everything.

 

We decided to date exclusive for a couple months and then get into a relationship. We are in no rush.

 

 

This is someone I want as a boyfriend though.

 

Lisa

[boltnrun]

You decided to be exclusive after two dates, you've already decided to be in a relationship and you want him as a long term boyfriend after spending a few hours with him...but you're not in a rush??

 

And also planning "Netflix and chill" dates to "save money"??

 

Didn't you decide you were "in love" with the previous guy after only spending a few hours with him?

 

Sorry, but you ARE in a rush. I'm concerned he noticed this and may take advantage.

 

Please proceed with caution. Don't get so caught up in a hurry to get a boyfriend that you don't take the time to get to know him first.