Wow I don't understand!!

[raylewis2121]

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[Wiseman2]

If you are married, he can't make you leave the marital home without a formal divorce unless he got a restraining order against you. Did he do that or call the cops on you?

 

If you have a problem with drinking or drugs or mood or mental health issues, help for that. You need to get an attorney and information about divorce. Stay with your parents and only communicate through attorneys. He doesn't have to "check how you're doing" after you hit him. You are fortunate you weren't arrested.

 

He didn't "provoke you to hit him". You could have left the house and gone to your folks, friends, etc. if things were getting out of hand. Get help for whatever makes you violent.

I got upset and pushed him, and then he started putting his hands on me. We hit each other. The next morning he told me to get out. I was packing. he offered to help me. my family came and got me and now I'm back with them.I've never hit him before, until that night, he provoked it. I just can't believe he says he wants a divorce because "I don't respect him"...

[Hollyj]

I think you should refer to your first sentence. This has never been healthy or good.

[raylewis2121]

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[Wiseman2]

Staying at you parents, consulting an attorney asap about divorce is the best course of action for you. Call a domestic violence agency for help with counselling, resources, employment etc. Do not contact him at all. Were either of you drinking during the last argument?

He has hit me several times in our relationship. And this was my first time ever

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[raylewis2121]

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[HeartGoesOn]

You don't understand

 

 

 

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