Boyfriend of 10 years left me

[Curlygal26]

Yesterday, I was at work and during my lunch breaks I would call my boyfriend to talk. We were talking everything was fine, I tell him I have to clock back in, so I am walking to the break room where a coworker says something to me and I start laughing and my boyfriend says what's so funny? I said, you're story and he goes no you're laughing at something else I said, my coworker. Then he got super pissed and told me "FU" bye. I try callling back and by now i am freaking out and confused he doesn't answer, and blocks me, then texts me later saying don't come by his house. When I get out of work I go by his house and we are having another snow storm and it's 11pm. He doesn't answer his door telling me to get the F*** out and that he will call the police. So I leave pissed off I start speeding home and I get home, I took a shower crying I get out and while I was showering he was calling my phone. I seen a couple of missed calls and texts and I call him back and he's like "are you home?" I said, yes. He's says, I am making sure I was worried about you, I start crying and he's asking me why would I lie I tell him I don't really have an explaination and I tell him I love him and ask him do you love me and he tells me to go to bed and hangs up. What's wrong with him and do you think he'll come back to me?

[Matt3939]

It's been 10 years I'm sure this isn't the first time for such behavior on his part. So I'd say if you want to deal with it longer sure you will be back together.

[Salty]

He sounds nuts but they do say guilty minds are ever suspicious.

[j.man]

After 10 years and something as simple as this happening, this is a story that sounds unbelievable even by crazy standards.

 

But assuming no other context or details, you're lucky to be rid of him.

[Andrina]

Did you start dating when you were 7? If he's over the age of 17 and acting like this and you still want him, you don't have enough life experience to know what a good relationship looks like.

[Wiseman2]

10 years? There's a lot missing from this story. Nobody breaks up and threatens to call the police because they overheard you at work.

 

The question isn't what's wrong with him, the question is why would you chase and stalk a guy who treats you like this?

He doesn't answer his door telling me to get the F*** out and that he will call the police. he tells me to go to bed and hangs up. What's wrong with him and do you think he'll come back to me?

[butterfly45]

Yesterday, I was at work and during my lunch breaks I would call my boyfriend to talk. We were talking everything was fine, I tell him I have to clock back in, so I am walking to the break room where a coworker says something to me and I start laughing and my boyfriend says what's so funny? I said, you're story and he goes no you're laughing at something else I said, my coworker.

 

I don't even know why you felt the need to lie about that. Has your partner been suspicious of you for a while?

[Hollyj]

He sounds unhinged and emotionally abusive. I agree with the others. I'm certain this type of scenario has happened before.

 

Find someone normal!

[angrythoughts]

tell him I have to clock back in, so I am walking to the break room where a coworker says something to me and I start laughing and my boyfriend says what's so funny? I said, you're story and he goes no you're laughing at something else I said, my coworker. Then he got super pissed and told me "FU" bye.

 

This sounds very stupid I'm sorry. I can't even imagine what your relationship is like aside from this argument. He sounds insane. Excuse me for being blunt but he is cursing at you for laughing at a coworkers joke? Even though you did lie and said you were laughing at his story, it's not something to be upset over. What should you do? Wait for him to grow up and get over it. I wouldn't even entertain the foolery. Let him be mad about nothing. He doesn't seem like the kind of person to reason with anyway. He also sounds insecure.

[evad1]

Yes there are a lot of messing details here. I'm pretty sure he's done this before or you at least know why he's acting like this