Can We Reconcile?

[gamlefisken]

Hello,

 

My ex broke up with be close to two months ago. We are college students, were passionately in love and shared a deep emotional, intellectual and personal bond. We are each other's first loves.

 

For the first week after the break up, we maintained close contact. She would send me sweet texts at night, and I felt led on, so I asked her if she was interested in reconciling, to which she said no. We then went into a month of no contact. In that time, she completely isolated herself from our many mutual friends and made her depression very public on social media.

 

After one month of no contact, she began texting me. First saying hello, then saying we should meet up and eventually more and more. In this period, I began seeing another woman in a sort of fling-like relationship. My ex saw us together at a bar, and after that began making more and more consistent contact. She began liking my posts on social media, sending references to old jokes we had over Facebook, asking me about my days, and began showing up to events she knew I would be at. She even invited me to a party at her house, which I declined, saying I have other plans.

 

Today, she confided in a friend that she had seen me at the event and felt sexual tension and comfort around me. She asked our mutual friend how I was and who the woman she saw me with was. My friend told her about the other woman, and she began sobbing. As my friend comforted her, she said they were "tears of joy that we can now be friends".

 

An hour after this conversation with my friend, she texted me asking to catch up. I told her I was willing to do so. She then sent me a link to a poem, saying it reminded me of her.

 

Does she want me back? WHAT IS GOING ON?

[shessofly]

You should ask her and see what she says.

[angrythoughts]

She sounds like she's playing games. She's constantly texting you and even more so now that you're seeing someone else. Even if she does want you back don't take her back. She seems like one of those girls that wants something when she sees someone else has it.

 

Don't even give her the satisfaction of seeing her. Cancel and tell her your busy. She dumped you. Don't sit here and make time for her and her games.

[Wiseman2]

Friendzoning.

WHAT IS GOING ON?