Should I keep trying?

[cprueba]

I'm a college student and have this girl in 2 of my classes, so I see her everyday. I started talking to her and after 3 days I asked her out for some coffee, she said yes and we went and got coffee right after class the next day and we had a pretty good time together. After that I asked her out on a weekend and she said she had a lot of homework, and I understand that because I did too. Then that coming week I asked her out again on Tuesday to go out on Thursday and she said she would have too see because she was pretty busy doing school work, and again I understand because I did too. On Wednesday I walked her to her car after class and I told her that I though she was really cute and smart, and she blushed and said thanks. Well, Thursday came and no answer from her. Again, I see her everyday in class and I talk to her everyday. She talks to me in a very active way, she's not trying to like avoid me or anything, she laughs and engages in conversation every time... but every time it's time to say bye, she just says bye without really stopping or turning to face me completely (since we are walking side by side). Do you guys think I should keep trying to ask her out and talking to her? She's never trying to avoid me but she's not showing many sign of interest, at least when I talk to her after class. I really like her and she probably knows that but still she doesn't show many signs of interest, otherwise she would try and make some time to go out with me or she would at least stop to talk to me a little more before leaving. :S What do y'all think? By the way I've been talking to her for 1 week and a half only.

[Viceroy]

Don't ask anymore, you've had a strikeout out, you've asked three times and each time something came up. Don't necessarily view this as a let down, she sounds really busy (you are too). I would just keep hanging around with her, eventually you'll get to a point where you realize this is going nowhere and decide what you want to do.

[abitbroken]

I think that after going for coffee and asking her out again and she said she was busy - that's when you stop and let her come to you - just say "I'll catch you another time" and see if she comes back to you and suggests plans. Honestly, when I was in school, classmates got coffee together all the time. It didn't mean we liked eachother romantically. I would have asked her out for coffee a week or so later again and got to know her better and made her more comfortable with you, but then you could have also ended in the friend zone. Honestly, if I was in her shoes, if a guy I just went to coffee up told me that I was cute and he liked me, I would run the other way as it was too much pressure. I would be more responsive if a guy asked me to coffee again after the first time and I got to know him better in a low pressure way, where I could decide what I thought of him. Classmates are tricky.

 

At any rate, the ball is in her court. She knows you like her. If she is interested, its her turn to ask you to something after class or otherwise make a move.

[abitbroken]

hat do y'all think? By the way I've been talking to her for 1 week and a half only.

 

You are moving too fast. Good for you for jumping in and asking her to coffee, but now its time to back off. She didn't have enough time to decide what to think of you - and since she sees you in class - it might be awkward if she goes out with you OR turns you down.

[cprueba]

Thanks a lot for the feedback. Well about going for coffee I right away let her know it was a date. It wasn't like friends getting coffee. But yes I guess the "ball is in her court" now. I'll wait and see what happens. Should I keep talking to her in a flirting way or just talk like friends? Thanks again!

[angrythoughts]

You weren't moving too fast. All you did was ask to hangout. That's not even first base lol. Anyways, I'm sorry... But you gotta let this one go. Stop asking her out. She's given many many signs. Even with her "homework load" she could make time for you if she wanted to.

 

People make time for what they want to make time for.