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raylewis2121

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rtyu4567 Contributor

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Sorry you are experiencing this. I can only imagine the pain and whirlwind of emotions. Since you are married, have you seeked legal counseling? Stay close to your loved one's and find moral support. Take good care of yourself, health wise and mentally, get sleep, eat well, talk about it and conserve all the energy you can. You are stronger than you may think you are, and although it may not be easy, you will get through this.

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So sorry you are going through this. Unfortunately people change and so do emotions. I know it's cliche but time heals you. Hold close the friends and family that will support you and remind yourself you can get through this. My dad left my mum march last year, she moved to a new place in a new house and is now very happy. You can and will get through this.

mines Community Regular

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This happened to me. My 2nd husband (not my kid's dad...) dumped me suddenly, no warning, and forced me out of "his" house (and that was Canada, my home is in the U.S.). I was a stay at home mom, so I had to move, no place to go, re-start my career, it was terrible. I never received a reason either

 

I'm so sorry you're going through this. For me it's been 8 years now and things are great! Honestly it took me some time to work through it but my life is precious to me and I won't let anyone steal it from me! I have a very nice, comfortable apartment, a really great career, great relationships with my children, their dad (zero contact w/that 2nd husband though!!!), lots of friends, I run marathons, and I'm very happy to be back home in the U.S. I love my life!

 

His ending our marriage - in truth - is one of the best things that ever happened to me.

 

Hang in there, take care of yourself, it will be tough but you will get through this. ENA has some terrific people; lean on them, post, you can do this. ((hugs))

Wiseman2 Grand Master

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Why is husband in quotes? How long were you married and why does he want a divorce?

 

You hire the most ferocious divorce attorney you can afford 2121;6748079]How to get over the fact that your "husband" now wants you to get out of his house, and he doesn't want you anymore. And he doesn't want to be married anymore.

raylewis2121 Newbie

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Why is husband in quotes? How long were you married and why does he want a divorce?

 

You hire the most ferocious divorce attorney you can afford

 

We've been together almost 2 years, and married just a few months... he said he wants a divorce because I don't respect him. That's bs

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like another poster said, you're experiencing a whirlwind of every kind of emotion right now, but we could probably be most of use if you could clarify what about this situation is hardest for you to digest- do you feel wronged, unworthy, humiliated, tricked, scared?

 

what lead him to the conclusion you don't respect him? what was it that you supposedly had no respect for- his time, work, family, attention...?

 

were you experiencing any kind of problems before?

raylewis2121 Newbie

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like another poster said, you're experiencing a whirlwind of every kind of emotion right now, but we could probably be most of use if you could clarify what about this situation is hardest for you to digest- do you feel wronged, unworthy, humiliated, tricked, scared?

 

what lead him to the conclusion you don't respect him? what was it that you supposedly had no respect for- his time, work, family, attention...?

 

were you experiencing any kind of problems before?

 

I posted a new topic to explain everything

Could you look at it ?

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