mandeelove Posted February 9, 2017 Share Posted February 9, 2017 My bf does not drive to me ever. I normally drive to him and we do everything in his area. I do live with my parents and he lives solo so that's one reason I drive there. But now he sold his house and moved back to his parents so we both are in the same boat. Also, my bf now lives only 10 miles away from me versus the original 20 where he used to live. Ok so a few days in to this move we have not hung out but I'm hoping he will drive to me. He did say he will even though we have less privacy now. We still will make it work. I have always had resentment that he never drove to me. . I expressed this but it never got me no where. Its not about the driving but the effort and to see he cares. I sit in traffic for him. I drive alot. It would feel good to see him put effort. Pick me up on a real date. Anyways his excuses ranged from too tired, u live too far, i dont feel good or theres way too much traffic. All dumb excuses being that i still drive in all the same conditions he did. Here comes my real issue....when his friends call or something that relates to networking or anything else important to him, he drives! Far too if needed! So since his move back home to his parents, he has drove over 20 miles to meet friends etc. He'll sit in the traffic. I just get really aggravated. It irks me. I speak up about it. Is it just me or would any girl feel the same way I do? I just sometimes feel bad for getting heated and coming off naggy but I cant help it. This gets me mad bcuz his priorities are messed up. Its like he'll drive to wherever he wants but it comes to me and nothing. I have to drive or put effort more. Link to comment
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