Danie0930 Posted February 9, 2017 Share Posted February 9, 2017 hey i need some advice you guys but before i ask i just wanted to give you guys the run down. So a girl an i were together for 5 years and we were even engaged but we were separated for 2 years because of a fight. This fight caused some serious depression issues for me so i recently got in contact with my ex so i could look for closure. We talked and we decided to hang out one day and it was fun and it made me realize that i still loved her. So we talked about the situation and we noticed that the reason we broke up was because of miscommunication where she would say and do things she doesn't mean and i would interpret those things as i hear them. For one she would kick me out and throw the ring at me and say she doesn't need me and i always took her back but the last fight i just felt unwanted so i broke up with her. During this convo she told me that I'm the only guy that if i was to say lets get back together she would and she still feels like marrying me and starting a family. After that time i went to her house the week after and we hanged out like we use to. Her laying with me on the couch i kiss her forehead and she farts and we laugh about stupid stuff. But towards the end of the night i thought i was going to sleep on the couch but no we slept beside one another (no sex). During that same night, before we went to bed, i turned her over and i told her i loved her and she said she loves me too and we kissed and went to bed. At this point we're taking it slow because thats what we both wanted but i feel like if we ever decide to get back we still need to talk to avoid the past from ever repeating itself. So I've been helping her with her school stuff and We text everyday but when we text we never talk about us or fun stuff just school and if not she takes a long time to reply. I don't tell her that i love her because i don't want to put pressure on her and make her say it back but i just feel like some how I'm the only one thats in love or trying to start over. She wants to go out next monday so after dinner i was going to take her to the movies just hope that things get better. My only problem is the communication and if i say something nice she gives one word answers. Any advice? Link to comment
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