Did I do the right thing?

[makeuplover]

Last night, this guy that I met online asked to pick me up from my house and go to his house to hook up. I just met him that day and he already asked if he can pick me up from my house and hook up. I told him that I don't really know him and I don't feel comfortable going to his house when I just met him online. Did I do the right thing? Is it a red flag if a guy asks a girl to hook up at his house when he first meets her instead of meeting her in public? What could his intentions be if he does that?

[stormie]

Of course you did the right thing! You don't know who this person is from Adam. I would first meet at a public place and have dinner, talk,etc, and go on at least two more dates before I even think about hooking up.

[lostandhurt]

Yes you absolutely did the right thing.

 

Are you only interested in sex or do you want a relationship? If you want a relationship then forget about this guy and look for a guy that doesn't bring up sex right off the bat.

 

Now if you are just looking for sex then make sure you meet in a public place and get to know the guy but NEVER let them pic you up at your house!

 

Lost

[Wiseman2]

It sounds like you've answered your own question 6746577]What could his intentions be if he does that?

go to his house to hook up

[j.man]

My faith in humanity depends on this being a troll post.

[Wiseman2]

My faith in humanity depends on this being a troll post.

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[greta96]

What could his intentions be if he does that?

 

Hmmm...hard to tell. I mean, him not only asking to pick you up from home (as a stranger), but also to go to his home to have sex is indeed very confusing.

Really??

[HeartGoesOn]

Multiple accounts are not allowed...Closed.