Confused Overeacting

[Rick1985]

you can see my original story on my page.

 

So I think I'm overeacting over nothing but could do with some useful advice.

 

Been 3 weeks no contact 7 weeks since break up. My ex had unblocked me on whatsapp and changed her whatsapp pic to a picture I took of her over dinner when we went to Paris. Am I reading to much into this or should I reach out TBH in an ideal world if everything happened as we wanted I'd have her back in a heart beat.

 

So my question is is it just a picture? Should I reach out? Should I continue with no contact?

[Wiseman2]

No actually it's the reverse. She's moving on and putting a new flattering pic up for everyone else..Has she reached out to you in any concrete fashion? Stay no contact.

My ex had unblocked me on whatsapp and changed her whatsapp pic to a picture I took of her over dinner when we went to Paris.

[Rick1985]

No actually it's the reverse. She's moving on and putting a new flattering pic up for everyone else..Has she reached out to you in any concrete fashion? Stay no contact.

 

Not reached out at all. You're right because it has been easier the longer I've gone no contact

[DancingFool]

lol....sorry I'm laughing because I've totally done that and exactly as Wiseman said - moving on and putting up a fresh new flattering pic and totally not thinking about the ex or where it was taken or whatever. Like don't care. I put up that pic because I like the pic, not because of some subliminal message I'm trying to send to the ex.

 

Do yourself a huge favor, stay no contact and better yet, block her for good so you don't see this stuff and keep wondering and getting set back with that kind of silly stuff.

[Rick1985]

lol....sorry I'm laughing because I've totally done that and exactly as Wiseman said - moving on and putting up a fresh new flattering pic and totally not thinking about the ex or where it was taken or whatever. Like don't care. I put up that pic because I like the pic, not because of some subliminal message I'm trying to send to the ex.

 

Do yourself a huge favor, stay no contact and better yet, block her for good so you don't see this stuff and keep wondering and getting set back with that kind of silly stuff.

 

Well she contacted me and let's just say it wasn't friendly forget no contact it's time to move on forever