Prince666 Posted February 6, 2017 Posted February 6, 2017 I think all people come into our lives for a reason and maybe she came into my life for a reason but now she is all quiet and I am not sure about the end either. The story goes that her family rented a flat in my building. The moment I saw her it was like I knew her for ever, seemed like we are just meant to be. Ever since we started talking the love would not go away. But I soon learnt that she was engaged to someone her traditional family choose for her, moreover we both don't practice the same religion too. But Love it was and We both knew it. Apparently I met her 3 times, the first was rather short on the street with an intro. The 2nd was way more better and we spent hours together just holding hands, singing songs and watching nature. After the 2nd meet she seemed somehow changed and although agrees that there is love but somehow destiny may not lead us together. I would not believe so I made a futile attempt at spending time with her to reason out the love, she did meet me but would not stay. Now here we are and somehow both seem silent, the silent is killing. It seems that her family wants her married within 2 months and she is just way too scared to tell them about us with our cultural differences. But there is still hope that she may understand that there is a reason we met in the first place and that happily ever after feeling cannot be wrong. The feeling of eternal love and its meant to be. Now the wait continues and We are still waiting for the happy ending together. Will it be a "HAPPY ENDING" ???
gebaird Posted February 6, 2017 Posted February 6, 2017 It would definitely be a happy ending if this was a Disney movie, but real life doesn't always work that way. Spending a few romantic hours with someone doesn't guarantee a happy ending -- especially when religious and cultural differences are involved. I don't think you understand how deeply embedded this kind of social programming is for someone who comes from a conservative culture. You can't undo 20+ years of indoctrination in a few short hours.
Prince666 Posted February 6, 2017 Author Posted February 6, 2017 You do have a point but Love does conquer everything. Can I still believe that it would ? The feeling that we are meant to be does not seem to go away, but both of us seem silent somehow. We need a happy ending!
gebaird Posted February 6, 2017 Posted February 6, 2017 You do have a point but Love does conquer everything. Can I still believe that it would ? The feeling that we are meant to be does not seem to go away, but both of us seem silent somehow. We need a happy ending! Love is powerful, and absolutely wonderful, but it doesn't always win. The only way to know if you are really meant to be is if you actually end up together.
pippy longstocking Posted February 6, 2017 Posted February 6, 2017 Well you only met her 3 times darling , and only one of those had any substance to it so sorry to be a debbie downer , but in my world , regardless of her arranged marriage I think you are living in a disney movie where eternal love is found in an instant . I don't believe in love at first sight , I believe in a connection at first sight that can be nurtured to a wonderful place , but that is it , and I am old enough and ugly enough to know this . She is having an arranged marriage , in 5 years on this site I have never seen anyone successfully steer another away from this .
Prince666 Posted February 6, 2017 Author Posted February 6, 2017 But the connection is way too strong, she still talks to me but is confused about meeting again. Is this actually destined, I am unable to sleep, eat or do absolutely anything. This just seems so perfect and so made for each other. She does feel the same too. Can we win and can Love win for once in this cruel world ?
Wiseman2 Posted February 6, 2017 Posted February 6, 2017 Sorry to hear this. It's heartbreaking to develop a crush on someone who is taken. I soon learnt that she was engaged to someone her traditional family choose for her, moreover we both don't practice the same religion too. It seems that her family wants her married within 2 months and she is just way too scared to tell them about us with our cultural differences.
gebaird Posted February 6, 2017 Posted February 6, 2017 But the connection is way too strong, she still talks to me but is confused about meeting again. Is this actually destined, I am unable to sleep, eat or do absolutely anything. This just seems so perfect and so made for each other. She does feel the same too. Can we win and can Love win for once in this cruel world ? I have a feeling your heart is about to take a serious beating, and I'm sorry about that because you seem like a wonderful person with a lot to offer. It would be best to get your head out of the clouds and get your feet firmly back on the ground asap. Otherwise the trip back to reality is going to HURT.
Prince666 Posted February 6, 2017 Author Posted February 6, 2017 She does not like him but is just consenting to her traditional family, what a pity! I cannot fathom how the indoctrination renders you so scared that you cannot admit to Love outside. We both know the feeling would not go away, she cannot surely leave me now. Sorry to hear this. It's heartbreaking to develop a crush on someone who is taken.
Prince666 Posted February 6, 2017 Author Posted February 6, 2017 Thank you for the sweet words dear friend, I am so much full of love and its not blood that flows within me. I haven't slept ever since we both are silent. This feeling is terrible but I still believe that Love would win somehow. Destiny would make it happen someway. Maybe I live in a fantasy world with happy endings, that is all I can ever think about. I miss her way too much. Will Love actually win over so many obstacles created over centuries of differences. I BELIEVE! I have a feeling your heart is about to take a serious beating, and I'm sorry about that because you seem like a wonderful person with a lot to offer. It would be best to get your head out of the clouds and get your feet firmly back on the ground asap. Otherwise the trip back to reality is going to HURT.
Prince666 Posted February 6, 2017 Author Posted February 6, 2017 Could I steer destiny and make it happen ? Happy Ending awaited. Well you only met her 3 times darling , and only one of those had any substance to it so sorry to be a debbie downer , but in my world , regardless of her arranged marriage I think you are living in a disney movie where eternal love is found in an instant . I don't believe in love at first sight , I believe in a connection at first sight that can be nurtured to a wonderful place , but that is it , and I am old enough and ugly enough to know this . She is having an arranged marriage , in 5 years on this site I have never seen anyone successfully steer another away from this .
Wiseman2 Posted February 6, 2017 Posted February 6, 2017 Even Shakespeare couldn't do that in Romeo and Juliet.Could I steer destiny and make it happen ? Happy Ending awaited.
Prince666 Posted February 7, 2017 Author Posted February 7, 2017 Yes, but I am no Shakespeare and it is destined. I just Believe brother. Even Shakespeare couldn't do that in Romeo and Juliet.
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