Is it okay if a girl sends hearts to my boyfriend ?

[Taiyatai]

Hello, so I Am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend. We have been dating for 6 months and last night he left to camp for 3 days and told me to keep his streaks on his snap chat. When I went on his Snapchat I found out that he have been snapping a girl for a very long time, and I really wanted to see if they were messaging there, when I opened their conversation I found out that they Been talking and she sends him hearts and calls his "b" sometimes. He does not say it back but still keeps talking to her. What should I do? Should I tell my boyfriend that I looked at their conversation? Or keep it in side of me ? I know I was wrong to look at their conversation, but I have been cheated on a lot in my previous relationships. What should I do? Please help!

[evad1]

Hello, so I Am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend. We have been dating for 6 months and last night he left to camp for 3 days and told me to keep his streaks on his snap chat. When I went on his Snapchat I found out that he have been snapping a girl for a very long time, and I really wanted to see if they were messaging there, when I opened their conversation I found out that they Been talking and she sends him hearts and calls his "b" sometimes. He does not say it back but still keeps talking to her. What should I do? Should I tell my boyfriend that I looked at their conversation? Or keep it in side of me ? I know I was wrong to look at their conversation, but I have been cheated on a lot in my previous relationships. What should I do? Please help!

 

"B" ? Like yo b? Sounds like a flirty friendship possibly. You can tell him about it but I doubt he'll have much to say about it. May also be better to get it off your chest for your sake.

[RainyCoast]

told me to keep his streaks on his snap chat.

i'm old. what does that mean? like he left it open for you to follow and update him if something interesting comes up or what?

 

he isn't responding to the flirting. maybe he is training her in dropping the flirting and accepting a friendship at face value. she can send whatever she wants and when it keeps going unreciprocated she'll have to stop to save face.

 

don't blame him for what women do.

 

does she know he has a girlfriend and have they met in real life?

 

i would immediately stop reading his private correspondence. having been cheated on isn't an excuse to invade people's privacy. you trust men or you're single until you get over the trust issue.

[Matt3939]

Yeah I guess I'm a bit old also. I know it's an app. If he gave you the PW for it. I'd say he has absolutely nothing to hide. He probably doesn't view this girl on his end as anything at the moment.

[j.man]

I mean I know about the whole hiding in plain sight strategy, but I highly doubt he'd be having you keep tabs on his social media if he had something to hide.

 

By the sound of it, it doesn't seem he's playing along with whatever anyone might be able to interpret as flirting. Not knowing who she is and whether he's just playing it safe and not deleting her so as to avoid rocking the boat, I'd just take solace in the fact he's been loyal on his end.

 

I'm sure he gave you access to his account hoping you'd update him on important / more significant events, not to dig through his message histories. I'd respect his confidence and abstain from digging for things to take offense to.

[evad1]

Yeah I guess I'm a bit old also. I know it's an app. If he gave you the PW for it. I'd say he has absolutely nothing to hide. He probably doesn't view this girl on his end as anything at the moment.

 

Exactly!!! I don't know if it's a girl he see or some random girl or he's just talking because he likes to talk but my boyfriend did that crap. He didn't respond to the flirting or anything and I trusted him. I told him I don't care if that's just a friend she likes you lol. I wasn't always for college for 3 months before he's sneaking around with her behind my back establishing a deeper connection. He's doing nothing wrong though lol. Nothing to explain.

[Wiseman2]

After only 6 mos of dating you get to know someone better. Are you dating exclusively? What is the significance of this calls his "b" sometimes"? Is she an old friend of his or an ex?

 

Unfortunately you don't sound ready to date or have relationships because of your baggage and trust issues. After only 6 mos you are already suspicious, snooping and freaking out over heart emojis.

he have been snapping a girl for a very long time and she sends him hearts. I have been cheated on a lot in my previous relationships.

[evad1]

After only 6 mos of dating you get to know someone better. Are you dating exclusively? What is the significance of this calls his "b" sometimes"? Is she an old friend of his or an ex?

 

Unfortunately you don't sound ready to date or have relationships because of your baggage and trust issues. After only 6 mos you are already suspicious, snooping and freaking out over heart emojis.

 

Good point that is pretty quick but too be fair lol the heart emoji!!! Snapchat lol. ]

[Wiseman2]

So? A lot of teen girls do this and xoxo, etc to everyone.

[RainyCoast]

yes, what is B? is that like the teenage "bae" thing? why don't people use actual words anymore?

 

and what is the conversation like, since you snooped already? are the emojis the only thing that looks off? because i agree, there's hardly a message sent by young girls to anyone that doesn't have emojis.

[evad1]

So? A lot of teen girls do this and xoxo, etc to everyone.

 

I think it doesn't mean anything on his part but no. lol never as a teenage girl did I send heart emojis to my guy friends. I definitely don't agree with the snubbing 6months in. I would not pursue arguing over that. He's done nothing wrong.

[Wiseman2]

wut?......

why don't people use actual words anymore?

[RainyCoast]

"i'm shippin' it."

 

"it's lit fam."

 

 

i'm lost.

[evad1]

"i'm shippin' it."

 

"it's lit fam."

 

 

i'm lost.

 

Lol saves time.

[JaggerJim]

I must be ancient.

 

What does "streaks on snapchat" mean?

What does "b" mean?

 

Kids today.

[Wiseman2]

Ok lets take guesses. Streak is an ongoing post conversation? B is babe? and we already know this means cheating: must be ancient.

What does "streaks on snapchat" mean?What does "b" mean? Kids today.

[JaggerJim]

Good point that is pretty quick but too be fair lol the heart emoji!!! Snapchat lol. ]

 

Yeah if you saw something similiar to this pic, it dosn't look good.

[j.man]

Lotta black dudes call each other "B" as in "bro" or "brother." I'd sound goofy but friends have been saying it for as long as I can remember. I'm sure you could use it for "babe" but it seems like something ridiculous to get upset over.

[Jibralta]

I call girlfriends B for biotch -- What up, B?

 

My sister called her dog (RIP) B because its name started with B

 

I too am interested in the new definition of B, and streaks.

[Wiseman2]

Yes, this is a real article *sigh*

 

Teens are obsessed with this one Snapchat score that can make or break friendships.

The INSIDER Summary:

• Snapstreaks tell you how many consecutive days you've chatted with someone on Snapchat.

• For many teenagers, it's a way of quantifying friendships.

• The number is totally useless, but is a way to keep people using the app.

[evad1]

Yes, this is a real article *sigh*

 

Teens are obsessed with this one Snapchat score that can make or break friendships.

The INSIDER Summary:

• Snapstreaks tell you how many consecutive days you've chatted with someone on Snapchat.

• For many teenagers, it's a way of quantifying friendships.

• The number is totally useless, but is a way to keep people using the app.

 

Social media *scratched head* only thing I know about Snapchat are the filters lol. Since instagram has videos lol.

[RainyCoast]

Yes, this is a real article *sigh*

 

Teens are obsessed with this one Snapchat score that can make or break friendships.

The INSIDER Summary:

• Snapstreaks tell you how many consecutive days you've chatted with someone on Snapchat.

• For many teenagers, it's a way of quantifying friendships.

• The number is totally useless, but is a way to keep people using the app.

 

oooooooh.

 

can someone explain shippin it? unless it's literally to do with shipment? delivering something? delivering what- a pun? a bottle of wine? urban dictionary speaks some sorcery about it, the desire of fans for a relationship to develop between two characters, so shippin from relationshipin?? so how does "I ship it" make sense?

 

and "it's lit fam"? i learned it means "it's on fire, family", and that's supposed to mean "it's great, brothers and sisters".

 

if i ever have children i am going to be one of those mothers who yells yolo at a highly inappropriate moment, convinced it means something other than it actually means.

"mom i'm dropping out of college to be a stripper."

"it's lit fam. yolo!"

 

maybe B is short for Brendan. Or Bert. Or Bill. Or Bollocks-i'm-too-old-for-this.

[Jibralta]

It's like discovering a whole new world

[Wiseman2]

It gets worse. SC assigns the emojis. So the heart thing could come from SC, not her.

 

🌟 Gold Star — Someone has replayed this person's snaps in the past 24 hours. They must have something interesting to show.

 

💛 Yellow Heart — You are #1 best friends with each other. You send the most snaps to this person, and they send the most snaps to you.

 

❤️ Red Heart — You have been #1 BFs with each other for two weeks straight.

 

💕 Pink Hearts — You have been #1 BFs with each other for two months straight.

 

👶 Baby — You just became friends with this person.

 

😎 Face With Sunglasses — One of your best friends is one of their best friends. You send a lot of snaps to someone they also send a lot of snaps to.

 

😬 Grimacing Face — Your #1 best friend is their #1 best friend. You send the most snaps to the same person that they do. Awkward.

 

😏 Smirking Face — You are one of their best friends …but they are not a best friend of yours. You don’t send them many snaps, but they send you a lot.

 

😊 Smiling Face — Another best friend of yours. You send this person a lot of snaps. Not your #1 best friend, but they are up there.

 

🔥 Fire — You are on a Snapstreak! You have snapped this person every day, and they have snapped you back. Increases with number of consecutive days.

 

💯 Hundred — 100 Day Snapstreak. The 100 emoji appears next to the fire when you snap back and forth with someone for one hundred days in a row.

 

⌛ Hourglass — Your Snapstreak is about to end. Send another snap to keep it alive.

 

🎂 Birthday Cake — This friend has a birthday today. Only displays if friend has the Birthday Party feature enabled in settings.

[RainyCoast]

this is where language gives up and goes for a drink.

 

OP. by modern standards, he was just having the usual online conversation. nothing more.