Found out my ex had sex with someone else

[pineapplelover]

This is so stupid of me, I'm mad myself for even wasting energy on this... my ex and I have been broken up for almost 6 months. I've been alright the last few months, I finally feel like I'm healing. I'm about 80% there and it's a great feeling. However, I found out he had sex with another girl about a month after we broke up and idk why it's making me upset? I'm more upset at myself for being upset, lol. I'm just like imagining them being together, wondering if she was better than me, etc. I'm not devasted but it just stings a little. Maybe it's because I was his first.

[Wiseman2]

It always stings. How did you find out?

[JaggerJim]

I guess he moved on. It sux and it stings, but try not to dwell on it.

[Matt3939]

It happens I had the exact same feeling. Me being upset at myself for feeling that way. At least you know it's definitely over and you can move on.

[pineapplelover]

My friend told me

[boltnrun]

My friend told me

 

Some "friend"!!

 

Why was your "friend" trying to hurt you?

[pineapplelover]

We got on the topic of exes and stuff and I asked what happened to them because she is friends with the girl he used to talk to, so it was my fault for asking. I was honestly just curious. I didn't expect to hear that they had sex though.

[Wiseman2]

It's all hearsay and gossip anyway. No one was in the bedroom with them.

We got on the topic of exes and stuff and I asked what happened to them because she is friends with the girl he used to talk to, so it was my fault for asking. I was honestly just curious. I didn't expect to hear that they had sex though.