Help with a girl

[Bc191]

I was talking to a girl for 3 months, we started speaking over a dating website and were flirting since then. We were talking non stop all the time and both deleted our accounts on the dating website after a week of talking. We would speak on the phone and Snapchat and it all was going well. However after 3 months we were talking everyday and I felt as if i wanted to tell her how I felt so that things didn't grow stale at the time she seemed happy and said I was cute and that what I said was really nice. In the following days her replies slowed down and I asked her if she was ok and she said she was just having a rough week and she would text me in a couple of days at this time I said is that true or do you just not want to talk to me and she said no I'm just not in a good place and assured me we were fine. Well a couple of days went by and she hadn't texted so I asked her if she was ok and she still kept the same position. The following week she texted me and saying can I have some advice so I thought perhaps she was confiding in me so I asked what it was and she said how do you tell a guy you arent interested and that how didn't I get the message that she wasn't replying, however given given what she had said previously obviously I wouldn't have thought this. This was totally out of the blue for her as although from reading this it might seem as if she wasn't interested we would stay up all night on the phone flirting and talking about our aspirations, exes and even sexual things. She then deleted me from everything and asked me not to contact her. It's likely her best friend was texting me that day as she always let her on her phone and the girl had never spoken to me as rudely as that but I know that she would have been sitting with her. I now want to know what to do as we got on so well and it ended so suddenly and for no particular reason. Thanks for reading

[Wiseman2]

Are you sure this wasn't a catfish or scammer or a married person? 3 mos of "talking" but not meeting is a huge red flag. "She" probably moved on to the next target. Or if this was a real person got sick of cyber-talking and moved on. Why did you never meet or date?

I was talking to a girl for 3 months, we started speaking over a dating website. She then deleted me from everything and asked me not to contact her.

[qwaspolk82]

I was talking to a girl for 3 months, we started speaking over a dating website and were flirting since then. We were talking non stop all the time and both deleted our accounts on the dating website after a week of talking. We would speak on the phone and Snapchat and it all was going well. However after 3 months we were talking everyday and I felt as if i wanted to tell her how I felt so that things didn't grow stale at the time she seemed happy and said I was cute and that what I said was really nice. In the following days her replies slowed down and I asked her if she was ok and she said she was just having a rough week and she would text me in a couple of days at this time I said is that true or do you just not want to talk to me and she said no I'm just not in a good place and assured me we were fine. Well a couple of days went by and she hadn't texted so I asked her if she was ok and she still kept the same position. The following week she texted me and saying can I have some advice so I thought perhaps she was confiding in me so I asked what it was and she said how do you tell a guy you arent interested and that how didn't I get the message that she wasn't replying, however given given what she had said previously obviously I wouldn't have thought this. This was totally out of the blue for her as although from reading this it might seem as if she wasn't interested we would stay up all night on the phone flirting and talking about our aspirations, exes and even sexual things. She then deleted me from everything and asked me not to contact her. It's likely her best friend was texting me that day as she always let her on her phone and the girl had never spoken to me as rudely as that but I know that she would have been sitting with her. I now want to know what to do as we got on so well and it ended so suddenly and for no particular reason. Thanks for reading

 

Or the girl got tired of talking to you...three months and you never met? You have no idea who you were talking to.

 

Move along and find someone else. No harm, no foul.

[J Miracle]

Yes its quite strange that you talked so often, however never met. If you were talking on the phone for months, probably not a scammer.. That's a big investment to keep up. Leave it be, find another. But going forward, remember to meet asap. Phone relationships require a lot of dedicated time, they're not very rewarding, and you ultimately have to meet anyways. Unless you just want a phone buddy.

[Wiseman2]

Just for fun and maybe learning watch this :

 

Agree

You have no idea who you were talking to.