About a girl i used to talk with need help? girls advice if possible

[unknown1233]

Me and this girl used to talk about year and half ago, We had a lot of respect for each other, we never met, just saw each other at places.We did like each other and then she got into a relationship with a boy for about a year, i wish her the best and left it. A year and half later she sent me a message, saying how much she regrets what she did and i was always on her mind. We started talking again but we never met up, we were going to but we just spoke for a while, then arguments started to happen and as soon as i showed my feelings to her, i can see she took this for granted. İ even man up and told her i don't want to argue with u anymore basically spoke about the problems and told her, i want to be able to meet with you and speak properly and be happy with you, and all that stuff we went through its not worth being like this. She turns around and tells me on a TUESDAY, i will reply to this on FRIDAY after her exams because shes has been stressed a lot. So i told her okay good luck with your exams. On Thursday night i thought about everything and i was like to myself if a girl really wanted you in her life, she won't ever delay you a couple of days, she will want to ask how you are doing? or even before going to bed to send a goodnight message. So i knew she was talking the piss. So i wrote to her a message saying ' who do you think you are? Someone that wanted to talk with someone will not delay them, they will be worried about them and want to know what they are up to, i told her i dont have time for kid games and kids like you and my cousins told me what he saw what you were up to at a club night out. i told her you will never change and i have had enough, you can go trick someone else i know your games, you cant fool me anymore and told her to off. She turn around saying who am i to write to her like this i am nobody, i am no one, and her exams are more important and shes not gonna bother with this so i didnt reply. She turns around and message me an hour later 'i wrote to you a message if you didnt notice, you cant just say whatever comes to your mind and then not reply. İ ignored it again and went no contact, its been 5 days but i do want her to regret it, i had to do this because she had control over me because i started to express my feelings and when i wrote that long message to tell her that i dont want to argue, she said she'll write couple of days later and she delayed me and took the piss and i had to say something. You think if she ever wanted me she will write again? its been 5 days i went no contact.

[SherrySher]

I think you were right to do what you did. She went off with another guy in the first place, even though she could have been with you. Then she comes back around but you are fighting. And although I know exams are important, she did basically leave you out to dry without giving you a direct answer.

Then she tells you, you are no one?!

To be honest, she sounds like she's wasting your time and I would personally leave this. You can't force a person to care like you wished they would, unfortunately.

She would have been with you long time ago if it was important to her.

[MissCanuck]

Don't waste any more of your time with her.

 

You two have never even spent time together in person and there's already a boat-load of drama. It's beyond juvenile and futile, OP. If she really wanted you, you'd have met by now.

[Wiseman2]

Unfortunately she doesn't owe you anything. You are not dating, you never asked her out. And you accepted being in the friendzone.

i wrote to her a message saying ' who do you think you are? Someone that wanted to talk with someone will not delay them, they will be worried about them and want to know what they are up to, i told her i dont have time for kid games and kids like you and my cousins told me what he saw what you were up to at a club night out. i told her you will never change and i have had enough, you can go trick someone else i know your games, you cant fool me anymore and told her to off.

[ParisPaulette]

Go NC, block, delete, examine why you keep letting her hoover you back in.

 

You don't even have a relationship, just an LDR and I would say she enjoys the attention of knowing she has someone online to make her feel good when the men that are in her life and see her daily make her feel crappy. That's not a friendship, it's called being used.

 

It's done, block her and move on. Arguing all the time is a sign that things are toxic and you aren't compatible in some way anyways. You need to just walk away.