Sonyacowgirl Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 I'm 28, he's 30. Been together for 1 year and he's an amazing guy, relationship has been essentially perfect and I have zero reason not to trust him. The other day we were talking and I mentioned missing how we used to sext/send each other pics when we weren't together. He was like oh yeah? And grabbed his phone and showed me a video of him doing his thing that he apparently took a few days prior. I was like uh why I'd this on your phone if you didn't send it to me? He said he was going to but forgot. I love him like crazy and do trust him but I also have a lot of trust issues from past relationships and now this is just kinda hanging around in my head. I can honestly say I've never had pics or videos on my phone like that unless I was going to send them to someone. Would this bother anyone else or am I being paranoid? Link to comment
Sonyacowgirl Posted January 31, 2017 Author Share Posted January 31, 2017 Any comments welcome Link to comment
j.man Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 I probably wouldn't date someone who kept digital media of their genitals on their phone, period. Shows me it's quite likely they're not too bright. As far as your story goes, I think you're thinking too much. He might have just rubbed one out at lunch time to send at a better time but just didn't. Link to comment
SherrySher Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 It's a bit strange in the sense that he even think's to sit there and do those kinds of videos. In my opinion, it's distasteful. But does it mean he's cheating? No, it could have been that he made the video and thought to send it another time. Either way, I wouldn't find it attractive. Link to comment
Sonyacowgirl Posted January 31, 2017 Author Share Posted January 31, 2017 I don't care at all that he took the video. It's just like I said why keep that on your phone or take it in the first place if you're not sending it to SOMEONE. But again definitely possible I'm just overthinking it. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 Why he has that on his phone is anyone's guess, however it doesn't spell cheating, (imo). Either way, with the progression of modern technology, I would be more concerned about why an adult would send inappropriate photos of that nature in this day and age. Link to comment
Pretzel Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 It would bother me, yes. But that could mean I'm paranoid too. Sorry, I know that is not helpful, but I think this is a personal thing i.e. what you're personally okay with and what not. I'd probably have a conversation with my bf about it, because I hate letting things worry me when there might be no need. Link to comment
Wolfshook Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 Some guy at NSA has probably seen a lot of balls this way... Link to comment
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