Billson91 Posted January 30, 2017 Share Posted January 30, 2017 So we broke up roughly 3 weeks ago, she did the dumping, neither of us had done anything wrong and there is no hate or animosity towards eachother. I'm still in love with her. The first week we didn't speak with eachother, she messaged me asking to meet just to go over things and sort of finalise the break up so to speak. We did that, went well, and we decided that we would stay friends and leave eachother on social media. A few days later I asked to meet again just to get some more things off my chest to her which she was fine with, she's been really understanding with the whole thing. After that we didn't really speak for like a week, then on the Saturday I messaged her just saying that I missed hanging out with her and she asked if it was cos she was such good company (joking around with me). She was going out that night with her friends and I felt like she was over me at this point (I had no indication that she was, was just a feeling, just to note, since the break up I had really bad anxiety when anything to do with her came up on my phone, it's now passed) anyway, I thought she would be going out that night and possibly getting with another guy or something which made me feel . So that night I deleted her off snapchat and her friends, just so I didn't even have the opportunity to see her doing something I couldn't bare to see. The next morning she rang me and said she was passing by and if it was ok for her to pop round, which I said yes. When she was at mine she explained that all night she was being sick in the toilet because she got too drunk (which made me feel better cos she didn't get with any guys), I told her about me deleting her and her friends on snapchat and she got annoyed at me for deleting her, and that she would never put anything like that on snapchat and that I should re add her, which I did. she was wearing her friends clothes cos she stayed there, and asked if she could borrow some of my clothes, which I let her do, then she left. Fast forward to Thursday just gone, I asked her if she fancied doing something and she said yeah, but she didn't have any petrol so I should just go round hers for a bit. When I got there we just watched telly for a few hours, I asked her if she was over me and she said no. then walked her dog, I explained to her how anxious I got when she goes out cos I think she would get with other people and that I just didn't want to witness it happening, she said she's not going out to get with guys and only to have a good time. we got back to hers and she made me a cup of tea, then I left. On the Friday we snapchatted in the morning but that was all, she was the one who sent me one first as well, Saturday morning was the same. Saturday night she had a free house and her and her friend were going out, the anxious side of me thought the worst and assumed that they would go out, find some guys and take them back with them. I went out that night too, kind of hoping to see her but also kind of not, I didn't see her out tho. In the morning I woke up to a message from her asking how my night was, we spoke for a bit then she asked what I was doing that day, we arranged to meet for some lunch and we did. When we got to the place for food, she asked me if I had kissed any girls the previous night, I said no, and somehow we got to the point where she was saying she wasn't looking for a new guy or anything and that she hated men (apart from myself) and that she was considering going celibate as a joke, which I agreed to her I would be doing too. When we finished our food she asked if we could go back to mine and watch a film, I said yeah. When we were at mine, we were on my bed just watching a film, there was a few times where we sort of play fought, (tickling, joke hitting eachother) the sort of thing I would find flirty I guess? She left around 4 cos she had to pick her parents up, once she'd got back home tho, we snapchatted eachother all evening up til around half 10 when I fell asleep. We've spoke a bit this morning and have arranged to do something later in the week. So basically I'm not sure what any of this means? Could she still have feelings for me? Should I just give it time and we could possibly get back together? I've read that couples break up quite often and that it actually helps to do so. Maybe she has given it a second thought about braking up? At the start of the break up she said she didn't want to give me any false hope about getting back together. I just want to note that I have 100% trust in her, I know for a fact she would never want to hurt me. Also when we hangout she quite often states that we are mates now, like when we were play fighting she would say "oh I can do this now we're mates". I don't want to read into that too much cos she could just be saying that cos we are mates or that she's just joking about it? I have no idea. Link to comment
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