andreww Posted January 28, 2017 Share Posted January 28, 2017 6 months ago, I met this girl on an online dating site. We went on 3 dates and we got along well, we held hands, we kissed (most of these were initiated by me), but suddenly she told me she felt she wasn't ready for a new relationship yet (she went out of a long relationship a few months before meeting me). I decided to remain friends with her, hoping things could go my way in the future. We talked almost every day since then and met ”just as friends” a few times. Until we did a party together with some of my friends at my house, when, after a few drinks, I found myself cuddling and kissing with her. After new years eve, she seemed to become interested again. After a week, I invited her to my house to watch a movie and we cuddled and kissed (she initiated it). While texting, she joked about me "cheating on her" and things like that, like we were in a relationship. I tried not to be the one to initiate kissing and stuff, cause I didn't wan't to seem like an easy target again (as I think I seemed when we first dated). Then, after another week, we went to a party together with some of her friends where, to my surprise, she ignored me nearly the whole night and she talked a lot with a guy I didn't know. She went out of the club to smoke with him a couple times, without telling me to come too and, out of jealousy and because I got drunk, I followed her and him. She seemed to avoid me the whole night, but I was stupid enough not to leave her alone and go home, making me seem desperate. Next day, she told me she was drunk (which I believe) and she is sorry she didn't stay with me much, but she had to stay with her friends (even though mostly she stayed with that guy). I told her that I acted how I acted cause I was drunk and annoyed by he inviting me to a party to then ignore me. I talked with one of her best friends who told me that she started to like me again after we kissed at my home, but she disliked the fact that I don't seem confident on my intents with her (as I told, I only let her initiate things after she first told me she didn't want a relationship). I now have a feeling that she lost interest again , but not because that guy means anything to her, but because of me acting desperate at the party. What should I do? Link to comment
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