RodgerClyde723 Posted January 27, 2017 Share Posted January 27, 2017 I've known this single mother for 2 years & we started dating on the 2nd year and it had it's ups & downs but no matter what we stayed together threw all the love & pain we've been through we fought to stay together but once I started to realize I could barly help her financially & I can barly provide for myself & I told her 3 days before Christmas "I'm done dating but we can be friends" but here's the back story : keep in mind I gave her $200 for the car down payment that we were both gonna use & this was 4 days ago (before the 3 days before Christmas break up) she never texted me back once within in those days & so I used a different phone to call her & which it did work, so I said hello then she replied" saying my name & I answered because I thought you were my boss" & then that's when I just started to ask her how did the down payment go? & a bunch of other questions (because I was worried) & that's when I heard her break down (She's a young 18-21 single mother, living in her own place, she's very independent & is always in a lot of stress & doesn't even talk to her own mother) she said "I barly have money, I'm working day & nights to feed my daughter & the money was stolen.3days ago.." she never told me how, or why ?? & I was just glad to hear her voice & that her & the baby were alright. And she said I'll call you tomorrow, so another 3 days went by..no text, no response, no communication (I do maintain myself like within those 3 days I've only sent 1 text or call each day, I understand she's a single mom, so I always gave her space as much as I could) & so when I found myself that I stress way too much about it plus I have my family to worry about it as well. I felt like the right thing to do was to stop it or maybe put it on pause or something which I did do it but now she says "She hates my ing guts,"& from time to time I have flashbacks about us & her daughter & now it feels like it's 2x as hard to let go knowing she has a grudge against me & not knowing why? How come she just didn't say "Goodbye, I understand & I wish the best for you too" but instead I got a "I hate your ing guts text & please dont text me again." but tell this day she still never told me how it got stolen, she never wanted to talk about it & always tried avoiding it & felt embarrassed about it. Link to comment
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