electricorchid Posted January 27, 2017 Share Posted January 27, 2017 I'm 22 and my boyfriends 28. He's a new relationship for me, in fact my second relationship since 4 years. He's been an incredible person to me, on my birthday he was incredible... treated my girlfriends and I like royalty. When we hang out in person he's great, we always have a great time and we communicate pretty well IN person... However, before we were together I was in Miami for a month. I was gone and he's not very social media active and I noticed he made an effort. he sent me a snapchat almost everyday of what he was up to.. he texted me first everyday. He was also on holiday from work and we were just still talking consistently. He doesnt like talking on the phone but he called me on two different occasions and we talked for like an hour straight each time, even though he told me he had bad experiences talking on the phone because his ex would call him every night that they weren't together to talk on the phone. When we came back from holiday I noticed he's been busier with work and def a little more stressed. Which I totally understand. But lately he's seriously so off on his communication skills, he doesnt text me at all, all day till 6 pm or 4 pm... He also went to switzerland recently and he was being so weird on the phone like he didnt know what to ask me and what to talk about. there were a lot of pauses and I confronted him about why we gets so awkward on the phone? While he'll admit to me that he's not very good at communicating on the phone I feel as if he doesn't make any effort to change this. Today I texted him first because I knew he had to wake up super early for a meeting, he answered that he's been moving nonstop all day but that the day is almost over and then i said replied back with "Just wanted to check in on you because I know you had to wake up early, wanted to know how you were feeling" and all he said was "great! thankyou". I'm a very communicative person and I don't know how else to bring this is up or tell him that I feel that in person he's just fine but via phone theres literally almost little to no effort in wanting to talk to me. Or it feels forced, like a hassle. I'm very confused. Any Advice? Link to comment
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