erinash105 Posted January 25, 2017 Share Posted January 25, 2017 Okay so preface, a mutual male friend of me and this guy (we will call him D) approached me early December about this guy whom he thought was perfect for me and wanted us to "court". He told me the guy knew about me and was super interested and wanted to know if I wanted to go out. Fast forward a few weeks and I tell my friend go for it. D starts texting me. We talk pretty much every day for about a week and then go on a first date. He tells our mutual friend he really likes me (and I really like him). We continue to talk and text daily or every other day and going out once a week (him always initiating both the dating and communicating; I only initiated texting maybe 3-4 times). We went on a total of 5 dates, each were super fun where he complimented me (not flattery but actual personality compliments); super gentleman. Fast forward to last week. We go on a date Wednesday where he insists he wants to come pick me up to take me to dinner. We have a great dinner with a ton of laughing, he comes back to my place where we watched How I Met Your Mother, laughed, made out and talked for quite a while. When he was leaving, he told me to have a great time at an event I had the next day and I told him to have so much fun on the bachelor party he was going on this past weekend. Thursday rolls around and he texts me continuing a silly conversation we had about PB&Js while I am at work and we text back and forth for a little while before I go to my event. After the event, I ended up hanging out with a group of people that included the mutual friend who set us up. He told me multiple times that he felt like D really liked me and that we were both awesome and that is why he hooked us up. Friday rolls around and I do not hear from him (no big deal because he had already told me his work would be super crazy for him trying to get off early for the trip and we had skipped several days of talking overall since we met). I then do not hear from him all weekend... Okay so I am just thinking he is on a guy's trip (which included our mutual friend) and I totally get not talking. I then do not here from him Monday either.... I texted him Monday evening to ask how his trip went. He responded within 10 minutes to tell me that the trip was a blast but that his work day was not and that he had an incredibly long weekend ahead of him (he is also going to be out of town the next two weekends). We talked back and forth that night (albeit it was somewhat slow and he used less emojis until we went to bed). It is now Wednesday and I have not heard back from him and he has not asked me to do anything this week (we have done something weekly up to this point). I am not sure if I am totally reading into this or if I am being phased out. He did use the word "we" on Monday while we were texting and he had told me early on when we first started talking that he normally does not have that much free time when it is not the holidays because of his crazy work schedule. I am really not sure what to think. I do not plan on texting or calling him again this week. Up until this point he was seriously giving off the vibe that he was really into me (introducing me to his friends, hand holding, head kissing, sweet compliments, flirting and tickling). What happened???? (Also FYI I have a huge anxiety issue, so I could have totally created this bad situation). Link to comment
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