Met this new girl! Do I have a chance? How should I take it forward?

[Heartbroken239]

I met this girl few weeks ago! We became roommates! We got very close! She thinks I am a rebel, arrogant, vain, proud, manipulative and bad influence; yet almost always is ready to do whatever I ask her to do, we spend probably the whole day together, we go out on lunches and dinners, she shares her secrets with me and tells me she cares about me after getting drunk! You think I got a chance?

[Wiseman2]

How did it come about that she's your roommate? Did she move into a shared house? Unfortunately, it sound like she's treating you like a male-girlfriend.

We became roommates! we spend probably the whole day together, we go out on lunches and dinners, she shares her secrets with me and tells me she cares about me after getting drunk!

[Andrina]

Why on earth would you become roommates with someone you barely know, and who you are attracted to? This is the worst way to start a relationship. It's not the normal pace, and it'll be like a star that burns too bright and then implodes. Too much together time. And most new relationships don't last, so it'll be awkward to live together until the lease is up.

[Heartbroken239]

Because she was ready to pay rent and I have no money lol

[Heartbroken239]

I don't believe she sees me as a male girlfriend, I am way too aggressive for that! I kind of order her around!

[Floris]

How old are you both?

[Wiseman2]

Is she your tenant?

Because she was ready to pay rent and I have no money lol

[Heartbroken239]

We are of the same age!

[Floris]

We are of the same age!

 

But what age? is she younger than 30?

[Andrina]

Sounds like a woman with low self esteem who lets a parasite sponge off her and order her around. Two people who are highly flawed will always be drawn to each other to complete their co-dependent relationship.

[Wiseman2]

Probably as the landlord and a friend. She doesn't want issues with the roof over her head.

I don't believe she sees me as a male girlfriend

[clemkin]

Do I think she may sleep with you? Sure. Does any of this sound healthy? Not particularly.

[JaggerJim]

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You so have a chance.

[Wiseman2]

I think you have a good chance of doing pedicures together one day

we spend probably the whole day together, we go out on lunches and dinners, she shares her secrets with me. You think I got a chance?

 

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[RainyCoast]

You order her around and she likes an evil twin? That'll work.

[Capricorn3]

After reading all of your other threads I can only say I hope she comes to her senses and moves out. No, I don't think you stand a chance - it will never last because, using your own words, you say you're a jerk. You're aggressive. You have a bad attitude. You can't keep relationships (I'm not surprised). You use people for what you can get out of them. You sound very immature and have a lot of growing up to do.

[Heartbroken239]

Yeah I am aggressive! I like to get into fights! I like boxing! Don't know why!

[Heartbroken239]

I think you have a good chance of doing pedicures together one day

 

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Hahahahah pedicure and me! I rather go out to my fighting training!

[Heartbroken239]

Yes I think I need to tone down my quarrels and aggressive nature!

[Heartbroken239]

Probably as the landlord and a friend. She doesn't want issues with the roof over her head.

 

I am not the landlord lol! She lets me stay! So I need the roof on my head