englishpatient Posted January 25, 2017 Share Posted January 25, 2017 I knew this woman for 7 months with sexual relationship. I was married but my family are in another country and she married twice and currently claims to single. I found that her behavior is really bothering me. Should I discontinue the relationship? (1) She likes to hang out with a couple and flirts with the husband in front of me and his wife. She is so eager to hang out with him that sometimes making his wife jealous. Did she enjoy with this couple more than me? I am afraid she will have a Valentine dinner with the couple. (2) She always put me down and said I am not competent in this and that. I feel very inadequate in front of her. (3) She retired at age 32 and now she is 48. She had 5 properties in UK and 1 million cash. However, she never shared expenses and requested me to contribute US$3000 to 4000 per month like her ex husband did. (4) She is a kind of shopaholic and I am paying daily expenses which could run few hundred dollars one day. I am not that rich and but I tried to put on a brave face to spend to make her happy. (5) For our future relationship: Direct quote "If you divorce, you have a chance to be with me. If you don't divorce, you definitely cannot be with me". We are in a 7 month relationship now and she usually set a deadline to end the relationship but I kind of beg her and paid her (US$3000 to 4000 per month) and the deadline keeps on extension. (6) She is very flirty with guys around him. She loves to mention her ex bf and how good and rich they are. I sincerely love her and even consider to leave my wife for her. But deep down I don't know whether this is true love or simply I purchase love from her through monthly rental. I plan to leave her Feb 1. Do you think I am making the right move? Link to comment
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