Ineedadviceplz Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 So I recently just discovered that my boyfriend has been lying to me for the past few months and he's been texting his ex and even saw her once when he visited his home town. Basically we are in college and we started dating 3 months before school started and we've been dating for 8 months now. His ex girlfriend is still creeping on him. He told me that when they met up a few months back to catch up she said she still had feelings for him. She goes to a separate college and has a long term boyfriend. I ended up sending her a direct message on Instagram because I felt uncomfortable not knowing this girl and I just introduced myself and explained I felt awkward tension because shes an ex and all and she was kind of nice about it but I wouldn't really want to be friends with her (she does a lot of drugs and I'm not big on that!) and so that went by and a few days later she texted my boyfriend just asking for help and then said never mind after he responded. But I also tweeted "I'm sorry if your boyfriend doesn't pay attention to you but don't strive attention from mine" - she doesn't even follow me or my boyfriend on Twitter and she texted him just yesterday saying he's an and that I'm a full of drama and sent him a screenshot of my tweet claiming it was about her and freaking out... I get tweeting is a little immature but this is exactly the reaction I was expecting if she still cared about him. She still texts him. She constantly unfollows him on social media and then te follows him (like Instagram) and she will constantly creep on his Twitter even though she doesn't even follow him. She also has gone through his tweets and favorited an old one and HE texted her saying "why'd you favorite that tweet" and she said "I wanted your attention". So, I know everything she does is honestly just to grab his attention and she's won once before by doing this I guess because he texted her first. My worry is that he still has feelings for her. My boyfriend claims its nothing and that he won't talk to her anymore but he said that months ago and just did it behind my back. What should I do? I really just don't want to deal with this girl anymore. She's just asking for his attention and it's just starting to affect me. I can't stop thinking about it and comparing myself to her. I also am just bothered because she thinks it's okay when she has a boyfriend. What should I do? Link to comment
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