nman90 Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 Hey, guys. Before I post the story I guess what I'm looking for is: am I in the wrong? Do you think we can get back together? Any other insite in useful too. Thanks Okay, so we started dating about a year ago now. We were friends for a few months before hand and her ex had cheated on her and she knew I had a thing for her and she wanted to work on a relationship with me. It lasted about 6 weeks or so. She broke up with me when an ex came back in her life who she was still in love with. She told me it was because I "grabbed her ass." We had stopped talking for about 2-3 months after that point. But we became friends again around May, and she had another BF. After he had hurt her (ignored her while he was trying to get with his ex-wife) she told me she was in love with me and wanted to be with me. And I took the deal because even though she wronged me, I forgave her and still loved her. This then started a cycle for months where it seemed like we would be together for 2 weeks then broken up for two weeks. She would literally ignore me or give me vague answers to everything (Idk/maybe), etc. This literally went on from August to like November. My friends all told me I was just someone she kept around when she was bored/lonely. She used to tell me she wanted to get married to me, have kids with me, live with me, etc. And I used to spend money on her, a lot. Finally around election day I asked her if she cared that I was a virgin. She got really mad and said she was insulted that I would think she would be so shallow. She then told me she "had a hard time ever seeing us having it [sex]". And when I tried talking to her about it she ignored me. To, me, it seemed like the relationship was dead for good. Who the would want a long term with someone they can't see having sex with. So, the week after thanksgiving I finally lost my V to some girl on Tinder. Not 2 weeks later she starts talking to me again. Around the first week of December or so? Things are going okay, she ignored me around xmas for a few days and then said "Sorry, I just got all your texts". The day after Xmas I told her about the Tinder girl, and she flipped her . She called me pathetic, and that I was just bulling her all these months just like every other guy shes been with. She told me she coulnd't be with me anymore, and that I broke her heart. She said yes some of the blame is on her, but the fact that I waited to so long to tell her, and hid it from her, was the worst part. But she was still chatty with me for a week or so, and I asked her if I hurt you so bad, why do you still talk to me? Every other guy that I've known you to be with you cut them off cold turkey when they hurt you and she said it was because "im still her friend". I thought that was pretty odd. About a week ago I see she got tagged in a relationship post, and because she wants to stay friends I sent her a congrats text (which was sincere). The next day I got a long aggressive text telling me to get over her, to be happy for her, and that she can only see us being friends. I haven't spoken to her since. Link to comment
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