I feel there is no trust. Or she is very inscured and hiding it well.

[abesherman]

I am with my gf for a year now, we love each other. She is carrying my child, I have always been loyal to her, never cheated on her, (there was something that happened once when we broke up, after 2 weeks I was looking for emochnal support and something happened between me and a girl. It wasn't planned. That girl was asking for it and I kept denying her saying I am still in love with someone else and just hurt at the moment.) This story is really irelvent however I am bringing it up since when we made up I didn't tell my girl what happened since I knew she was gonna explode and brake things of mine. Witch did happen when she did find out, she broke my window phone etc.. now I will go back a bit. She really never trusted me in any way. And contact with any sorta girl dosint matter if she is a friend or just a girl who I do business with, I hunistly don't care and don't need femail frienss, the fact she is making a big deal out of nothing is making me feel inscured. Anyway This how she was before and after this incident happened. As time passed she started being cool only with my best friend witch is a female. We started having an amazing time together having fun all was forgotten. Today I was driving and I told her I hate that my neighbor always takes my parking in the driveway and I will take her number so we can communicate about the parking. She was holding my hand when I said that and her first action witch btw she always does is take away her hand and look away. She told me why do u want to have a girl's number. And again I explained why. We always have these arguments. I am very sensitive and I am careful around her I don't want to hurt her feelings. Deap inside of me I know the truth, I don't look at girls I even became socially awkward around any femail or even guys that I met. I just don't understand why she feels this way when I gave up everything and litrlly do everything for her.

[Wiseman2]

Congratulations on the upcoming child. Do you live together? She sounds a bit jealous and insecure and there's only so much reassuring you can do.

 

How do fights escalate to the point of her vandalizing your phone? That's a giant red flag. Does she have an anger problem?

 

Have you talked about this insecurity and that it's not good for either of you? Unfortunately if unaddressed it will get much worse after she has the child.

I am with my gf for a year now, we love each other. She is carrying my child

[abesherman]

We don't live together, we both live at our parents. We are actively looking to move out together. I can say she definitely had anger problems, she has made a drastic change and becoming the most sweetist girl out there. Now she gets less and less angery. Every single time we start talking about her inscuritys she thinks I wanna start a fight and we never finish the conversation. She is always in the right and I always in the wrong. I am the worst person. When she comes down I am her man. But don't u dare bring up what hurts me the most, THE conversation...

[Matt3939]

OP please try to get some couples therapy. I've now dealt with a similar situation for 4 or 5 years. It doesn't get better it only gets worse. You are constantly walking on egg shells for no reason. I'd say just get out but there is a child involved. I wish you the best of luck.

[abesherman]

So today she finally trusted me to be around her friend I was driving her home. And we where playing music having fun etc. Then we where talking and I told her friend and my girl. My GF is the most beautiful is sexy etc. For some reason my gf heard that wrong. And she said I told her she is pretty bla bla bla. I tried chearing her up with no luck so I drove her home and we both ignored each other.