IndieTalks Posted January 23, 2017 Share Posted January 23, 2017 I've been with a pretty amazing guy now, for around six months, we've just made the move to move in with each other. And in that score everything is fine. However, around Christmas time, while he was down with his family. I noticed he had messaged one of his ex's on Facebook asking for forgiveness on how he handled the breakup.I was pretty upset about this, but eventually we resolved it. We're now living together and he's now messaging what he called his "friend" Rachael. I hate to admit this, but at this time I was looking at his phone, but I was racked up with trust issues and insecurity. I didn't bring this up in conversation however,instead when he showed me a picture on her profile, I asked about her, and being rather blunt, I asked whether there had been any romantic connection between them. The reply I got was "Not, really, no." However, yesterday through a mutual friend, I discovered there was... where as he was quite clearly besotted with her. I hate to say it, but Iam a little upset over this, all I wanted was the truth. And now, I'm sat here confused on ether I'm overeactting that he's been talking to her ( also over the Christmas break) perhaps just wanting to have a friendship with her. Or I'm I justified and should bring it up with him? I guess my question is really, how to get over this anxiety and open up communitcation wothin a relationship, without feeling like I'm being" clingy" of "annoying". I really do want this to work...but at the same time, I don't want to be made a fool of ... Thanks, Indie Link to comment
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