AxlVega Posted January 22, 2017 Share Posted January 22, 2017 I'm tired of rewriting this. Basically I have two or three very close friends whom I rarely see (we're all in our late 20s), or at least I feel like I don't see enough - and when I finally get together with one of them it's always on me. I message them, I go to the effort, I plan things out. Basically that, hanging out is 100% on me and if I didn't move a finger for any of them I would never see or hear from them again. Well, not for a few months anyway. I don't know if I'm being clingy, needy, pushy or actually have a claim on this, and not knowing annoys me to no end. One of them is in a steady relationship - practically married - another one is going out, the third one's single. Only one of them has an actual (part-time) job. They're not exactly swamped up with work and such, though I will concede they have a bigger circle of friends than I do, which I suppose keeps them busy and on demand. But come on, one of them lives like 6 blocks away from me - only been up to his apartment once. Never invited me up since, always comes to my place, if he comes, if I call him. We haven't gotten together since like mid December. I don't want to overwrite this. I have a great time with my friends when we do get together, it just doesn't happen often enough for my liking, and what frustrates me the most is that it's gotten to the point where it is 100% depending on me. Every time I try playing it quiet for like a week or more I end up caving in and calling them. And then it's back to waiting on them whenever they feel like getting together. Any thoughts on the situation? Link to comment
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