chanelaris Posted January 20, 2017 Posted January 20, 2017 How do you feel about your girlfriend/wife watching porn? Does it make you feel insecure?
beternal Posted January 20, 2017 Posted January 20, 2017 I guess that depends on the man! - I know some guys that actively watch it with partners, some that are more tentative and others that would avoid it at all costs. Likewise I know women that do, and women that would never even think about it. I believe many men feel insecure because the porn-stars are more toned or 'larger' than they are and worry the women are wishing they had that over them but I doubt that rarely happens. I'd imagine the biggest fear (for both sexes!) is that when you know what your partner watches, that that might be what they secretly want from sex, or likewise, might influence their 'performance'... for example watching anal and wanting anal (when maybe your partner doesn't), or watching more 'rough' sex and thinking your partner might enjoy that etc etc. There was a poster here a few days ago worried that her partner liked tranny porn and what he actually preferred... same principle. As a person, yeah I am a little uncomfortable with the idea... porn and what you do on your own is quite a private thing... and as long as you keep those fantasies as just fantasies and appreciate your partner, I don't see it as a bad thing. What are your worries? - that she might want others with that physique (or others in general) - and that maybe you aren't satisfying her enough... or that she wants to try things you don't want to do? It might work out in your favour! - she might have a higher sex drive than you realise and would be happy with more (if you wouldn't mind doing it more!).
Wiseman2 Posted January 20, 2017 Posted January 20, 2017 If you are long distance he may understand that physical sex is missing for both of you. However since you are in different countries he only needs to know if you feel like telling him. How has real life sex been when you were together? When will you see each other next time? It's only 6 mos of dating so it's the getting to know you phase.My boyfriend of almost half a year,currently we are both long distance.Due to legal reasons, to live here, I have to either have a job or be married to a local man so I have to leave as I have neither.
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