First relationship

[Kaykay23]

So I've been going out with this guy for 3 months now, but only officially dating for a month. Im 23 and he is 27. This is the first relationship for both of us. Everything is going great so far but he only wants to see me once a week. On the odd occasion that I have seen him more than once a week he has freaked out and said that its too much. Should I just give him time to adjust to the whole bf/gf relationship or is he just not as invested in me that much?

[missmarple]

He freaked out when he saw you more than once a week and you're still with him? Wanting to see someone isn't a matter of 'adjustment'..it should be a given when you care about them.

Leave him and find someone who can't wait to see you.

[Wiseman2]

What is the reason he wants to go slow? Are you dating exclusively? Do you stay at each other's places?

 

This isn't about adjustment to anything it's about how much time together is mutually desired. How often did you see each other when you weren't bf/gf yet?

 

Does he need a lot of space? Does he live with his parents? Or work long hours, have a lot of hobbies, etc? Have you had the discussion about more together time? Do you alternate meeting at you place/his place and going out/staying in?

officially dating for a month. Im 23 and he is 27. On the odd occasion that I have seen him more than once a week he has freaked out and said that its too much.

[Sportster2005]

You have different ideas of a what a relationship is. I know it's your first relationship, but I don't think you're a good match. He's not going to change, and neither should you. Not on as something as important as this. Next.